Let me preface my story for understanding.
My wife, Ally, and I work together.
We have for 15 years, that's how we met, we've been married almost 12.
It is a large office, we are both executives in different departments.

There is a guy, Henry that is a partner in my wife's department, he has been there 5 or 6 years and has hit on Ally since he started.

Henry has never been very friendly towards me even though I've tried to shrug off his incessant flirting with my wife. As a matter of fact, he has always been just plain rude.

One night when a bunch of coworkers got together and went out for drinks Henry even went as far as to ask Ally right in front of me, "Does the carpet match the dr**es?", referring to her red hair.
I know Ally always enjoyed the attention, she joked and said in return, "Don't you know carpet isn't in style anymore."

Well that was the last straw. Ally and I had a little argument that night. She assured me that she had always been faithful and was only joking. I knew it was true, Ally and I rarely ever spend any free time apart. None the less, I told her I wanted her to stay away from him outside of work.

Recently we all went out again. Ally had a touch of the flu so called it a night, while I stayed out.
We all had a little too much to drink.
There was this crazy temp, Becca, from Ally's department. She was a lot of fun, but went overboard that night. She made a comment to me that I must be a boob man, judging by my wife, then flashed me right there in the lounge.
A little while later, Becca plopped right down in my lap and kissed me, we were lip locked for a good minute.
I had never fooled around on Ally, I felt guilty and akward, so I excused myself and went home.

A week later, I had a late meeting. As I was about to go in to the meeting, Ally told me, Becca had quit that day because her husband told her to.
I asked why and Ally told me, "I think you know."
I wanted to explain, but I was pulled in to the meeting.
I said , "We'll talk when I get home."
Ally said, "No, I'm going out with Henry tonight.", then walked away.
I couldn't say anything because I was with my boss and a client.

When I got out of the meeting, I had two texts.

1. There are leftovers in the fridge, don't wait up.

2. BTW, I hope it was worth it.


I tried to call Ally, but the phone went straight to voicemail. I tried texting her, but there was no answer. I even used the Find my friends app, but her phone must have been shut off.
I waited all night for her.
I couldn't sleep.
Finally around 8am, (it was Saturday), Ally strolled in, with her make up s mess clothes a mess.

"I've been up all night", I said.

"Me too!", Ally said with a sarcastic smile on her face.

"I was worried about you, didn't you get my texts?"

"Oh you shouldn't have been worried, I told you where I was." Ally said calmly and still smiling.

"You went out with Henry??!"

"No, we didn't go out. We went right to his house. I was perfectly safe, we had a great time and unlike you, I got laid last night.", Ally said as she marched in to the bathroom taking her clothes off.

My stomach dropped to the floor, I was jealous, upset and strangely horny. I was pissed that of all people, Ally let that prick Henry fuck her.
He had been trying to fuck my wife since day one and it finally happened.

I walked in the bathroom behind Ally, she turned around fully nude. She was waiting for the shower to heat up.

Ally looked at me and said , Henry told her that her tits were better than Becca's.
(I didn't realize that Henry had seen what happened that night.)
Ally went on to explain to me that Becca came to her in tears and told her I had taken advantage of how drunk she was and it caused problems in her marriage.
I tried to explain, that's not what happened, but apparently Henry had seen Becca flash me and kiss me as well as another coworker Sarah.

Ally told me that she doesn't care what happened, but she was angry that I would tell her to stay away from someone and then I go and kiss a coworker. She said, there is no way I could know how humiliated she feels, then she added, I guess maybe you can.

I asked her, so you slept with that asshole Henry, just to get back at me?

Ally responded, Not everything is about you, I had sex with Henry because I wanted to, I have for a long time. I didn't have sex with Henry because of you, but you took away my reason not to. Oh and he's not an asshole at all, he's actually quite gentle, well not always gentle, but he took care to make sure I was enjoying myself as much as he was.

I looked at my nude wife, at the neatly trimmed red patch between her legs. It ran through my mind, he knows now that the carpet matches.
Ally had a bruise on her pelvic bone shaped like a thumb.
What was clearl a hickey on the edge of her aereola.
I became strangely aroused again and at the same time disgusted because I
can't stand Henry.

I blurted out, why couldn't you have fucked anyone else?! As Ally climbed in to the shower.

Ally said, because I wanted to fuck Henry.
I'm sorry if that doesn't play in to your cuckold fantasy, but again, this is about me and not you.
Look at it this way, maybe you'll get lucky and Henry will quit like Becca did, although I doubt it, he doesn't have a wife that will be upset.

As she climbed in to the shower, I asked Ally, What now, to which she replied, That's up to you.
Ally said, you can let it go or I will go. I'm not playing tit for tat with you, I don't regret what happened and wouldn't mind spending more time with Henry, I don't love him though, I'm in love with and I am married to you, for better or for
worse. I hope you can get past it.

I agreed to let it go.
That's easier said than done though.
I find myself at work, wondering if any of my coworkers know, they must.
Henry now finds any excuse to touch Ally, I see them around the office, he puts his hand on her back when they go through a door, he touches her arm every time they talk.
He completely ignores me, but has begun calling Ally , 'Red', whenever they are in war shot. I know that's his way of rubbing it in my face, that My wife let him fuck her.
Ally says I'm over reacting and he has been very mature about it all.

I know she isn't cheating anymore, we're always together, but Ally has made no qualms about letting me know, that she feels like I make everything about me and if I want her, she isn't having it anymore.

The truth is, I'm not mad at her for having an affair, I just don't know how to let her know, how much I can't stand him. Ally is done though, she won't even talk about it anymore.

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by Anonymous on Jan 24, 2017 at 5:09 PM

Takes about 3-4 years to get over it.

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by Anonymous on Jan 24, 2017 at 6:18 PM

dude, you need to leave her ass. Some chick showing her tits off to you and then try to make out with you is incomparable to your lady giving the high horse to some asshole who has been clearly trying to undermine your fuckin relationship. You were found compromised and genuinely felt bad. Probably saying something would have been the smart move. She cheated on you with some prick and doesn't feel the least bit of remorse.

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by Anonymous on Jan 24, 2017 at 8:11 PM

Henry wouldn't be a well man if Ally was my wife. In fact they'd be no point in giving him pain killers to aid his recovery. There wouldn't be any recovery!!!

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by Anonymous on Jan 24, 2017 at 9:45 PM

Dude, you're a stronger and better man than I, I most likely would have killed either one or both of them out of shear anger. I'm sorry bro, that you had to go through that.

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by Anonymous on Jan 24, 2017 at 11:23 PM

Mate...you're a cuckold. The sooner that you accept that end enjoy the fact that your wife is a HOT WIFE the better.Enjoy the moments that she has with her lover knowing that you are soooo lucky that after she's had a good hard fucking by an alpha male, she will crawl back into your bed for you to have sloppy seconds. Perfection!!!

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 3:05 AM

Wake up my friend, wake up. She has admitted that she always wanted to to fuck that son of a bitch, and now that she has fucked him there will be no stopping. They are all touchy in front of you and others, they work in the same department,and you don't think they are fucking. She is no longer your wife,you are just a fifth wheel. Dump her or put him out of his misery.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 6:04 AM

Her point is that I never said anything and she had to find out from coworkers, but she was honest with me from the start.
I can't deny that.
I love my wife and don't want to leave her.
I have to confess that she has been saying for years that I make everything about me and I have refused to seek marriage counseling like she wanted.
Since this happened, our sex life has never been better and she has made every effort to improve the quality of our life together.
So I am left with a quandary, Do I leave the only woman I've ever loved or do I leave and cut my nose off to spite my face.
I've chosen to try and move past it.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 6:13 AM

If you were a man you would have beat the fuck out of Henry a long time ago.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 6:14 AM

It seems that both that Henry and Becca plotted it all.Otherwise,she wouldn't have flashed her boobs to you , plopping in you lap kissing you--all this in front of Henry and some other girl.You didn't notice Henry's presence but She knew it.Becca wanted to give him fun and must have reached her climax after listening to Henry's sessions with your wife.

If you have any self respect,leave Ally for good and never get her back.She has confessed to always having had the desire to sleep with Henry.You maintained your loyalty,she didn't.Get her out with all due process--paying her alimony if due and without talking to anybody,change your job,residence( lest you want to be humiliated by Henry and Ally with co-workers to get back at you despite a respectable divorce)and get another & better girl this time.Be ready to a fight with Henry with or without his friends --if you don't throw Ally out instantaneously-she may have the time to get back at you even in this manner.She seems to be completely remorseless and has taunted you instead--it's up to you what happens next.Don't be sentimental now.If necessary,get in touch with police and lodge a complaint of apprehension with them without having to get a discussion with Henry and Ally( which the police might want to arrange).Keep all possibilities in mind.Becca can be sent again to seduce you and raise the charge of r**e against you.You should have seen through this game.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 8:18 AM

How can you say that she was honest with you? She did not give you chance to explain your self.She did not answer your phone because she was to busy screwing that asshole. Don't take any blame for her action. She probably screwed him before, she is doing it now and she will be doing it for ever. She used your incident with that drunk bimbo(which was probably a setup), to put the blame on you,come out from the shadows and legitimize her infidelity.
She didn't show any any remorse did she? Man up or be prepared to suck his cum out of her for ever.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 9:42 AM

Find a legit.reason to be away for a few days, make sure her lover knows about it(do it discretely) and put a P.I. on her and you will see how fast her legs will go apart.
Be prepared to do it few times, the may suspect something.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 9:51 AM

Find a reason to be away for a few days, make sure he finds out( but be discrete about it)
Hire P.I. and give him all the details and you will find out how quickly her legs will fall apart. Be prepared to do it few times, they may suspect something.

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by Anonymous on Jan 25, 2017 at 11:44 AM

You did not brake your wife's heart when you did what you did with that drunk slat, your wife's heart was singing with joy. She did not want your explanation,she saw the opportunity to have her dream come true, to fuck her dream lover openly with your knowledge and not feeling guilty about it. Welcome to the world of cucks.

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by Anonymous on Jan 26, 2017 at 1:46 AM

Very sad situation here.You let her go ,which is the best way out rather than getting taunted in the office.On the other hand -you divorce her,she goes to town claiming confession of impotence on your part.Not counselling ,but urologist( who deals with impotence) is who you need.Once you can perform well in bed or if you can't but are treated satisfactorily---dump her to exact revenge.What she did is understandable( since she advised you to seek therapy and you did not bother) but NOT pardonable.

I repeat---Get yourself in "shape" and then get another woman after dumping her since UNDERSTANDABLE can't still be pardoned.She could have quietly asked for a divorce( if she wasn't happy sexually or due to the bimbo incidence)and carried out the affair once out of wedlock,instead of blaming you for that bimbo's actions--which also proved that Ally does

not suspect impotence-and yet wanted you to seek help.What she did is certainly not the solution.Very devious woman.

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by Anonymous on Jan 26, 2017 at 6:56 AM

Dump her ass

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by Anonymous on Jan 26, 2017 at 11:03 AM

I have to go with the prevailing winds on this one. First you should have put the fear of God in him for even flirting with your wife. Second she should have filed sexual harassment charges. Third, she knows you and should have given you the benefit of doubt re the Becca incident. Fourth, You should've made her life hell for cheating on you like she had a hall pass. Fifth, should've taken a metal pipe to his hands for touching your wife,rubbing it in your face (not at work though, he definitely earned a life threatening beatdown) and Sixth if she ever in your presence even thought the beating you gave him was wrong, kick her ass to the curb so hard she woke the fuck up alone and a known cheater. Save yourself and move on. Your kind of love she does not deserve.

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by Anonymous on Jan 26, 2017 at 2:56 PM

If you continue to ignore hes behavior and allow him touching her in front of you and others
you are not only becoming a laughing stock in eyes of your coworkers but you also loosing her a bit each time he touches her. Man up,or be prepared to be a door mat for the rest of your life. The only way your marriage can survive is to remove him from the picture. He has to quit his job and move out of town,otherwise she will be tempted to visit him at his house. With little ingenuity you can do it, if you don't you will become second fiddle to him.

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by Anonymous on Jan 26, 2017 at 5:46 PM

For the love of God, what wrong with you? Your wife clearly stated that she always wanted to fuck Henry and she would love to do it again. And you still believe that she is faithful
to you? Her increased sexual activities with you is only proof that she is trying to pull wool over your eyes and make you believe that you are her only man. Most woman that have sex outside of their marriage do that. You have said that you love her,dose she love only you. I don't think so. When she fucked him for 12 or more hour and come home at 8 in the morning, she give him more than her body. When he calls her red in front of you,he is saying.. hey everybody, I am fucking his wife and he is to big of coward to do anything about it.Why is Henry's arms are not in a cast,and his jaw not wired shat? So he could not touch her again or call her red. If you don't stand up for your and your wife's honor, May the Good Lord have mercy on you.

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by Anonymous on Jan 26, 2017 at 10:42 PM

Bad situation.If a woman is cheated,all including men sympathize with her.A man is derided and if he fights him and is outfought,he will still be taunted.Te best way out is to get a good lawyer ,ask him how to get out without any backlash from the wife+lover boy,and settle alimony if payable and split.Get another job to avoid unwarranted and false sympathy or ridicule from fellow workers.Humiliating ,I can understand.Either way,you will be the loser.Wife appears utterly indecent and shameless,in that,she could have asked for a divorce and afterwards( or during the period of separation) she could have continued her affair with him.is could have been less humiliating.Now she is showing you that she is doing you a favour by sleeping with you and yet she is sleeping with him because he is more satisfying.God forbid anyone gets such a wife.

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by Anonymous on Apr 23, 2018 at 9:56 PM

Your a Wuss!! I'd Leave the f-n cheating Cunt!! Obviously you don't add up to a real man, Next she'll have you sucking Henry's dick. Faggit

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by Anonymous on Jan 28, 2019 at 12:57 AM

I know that this was posted two years ago but how is your life and marriage going? I agree with some of the reply posts this situation with Bella was a set up by Henry so that he could have sex with your wife. I am surprised with your wife's response she did not give you a chance to explain yourself. Your wife used a flimsy excuse to have sex with Henry. Also to say that she wanted to have sex with Henry and still wants to. Your wife knows how you and Henry don't like each other and telling you she had sex with Henry was twisting the knife. The other thought is that your wife was trying to wake you up as she said that you make everything about you. Your wife took a caculated risk in being unfaithful and blaming you as she knew how you would react. Don't let Henry get to you you have more than him you have your wife. Good luck.

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