We've been married for over ten years and have had a great sex life together. We're not afraid to try new things to keep things interesting. One thing we both agreed on years ago was no additional people added to the fun. Well, a while back she asked to do a threesome. She didn't care if the additional person was male or female she just thought an extra person might be fun.

I had a bad experience with a threeway with my first wife that really turned me off of the idea of ever doing another. The second guy was fucking my wife and she was sucking me, when he reach over and tried to finger my ass despite the fact it was made abundantly clear my ass was a definate no go zone before we started. My instinctive reaction was to thrust forward away from the offending digit. I ended up balls deep in my wifes throat. She could deep throat, but she had to be in the right position and be ready for it. Unfortunately she was neither of those things so her instinctive reaction was not to gag and choke like I would have thought, instead it eas to bite down hard. While it didn't sever my penis, it did require several stitches. At least we made the doctors and nurses night in the er when we told them exactly what happened. While I was recovering she was fucking the other guy behind my back. That ended marriage number one. I had a really bad experience with tequila once and I can't touch the stuff any more, kinda the same feeling with threesomes.

Anyway when my wife brought up the subject of doing a threesome she wasn't surprised when I declined. She was familiar with my past experience and the fact we agreed early on to no outsiders. She told me she just thought she would ask. I told her it doesn't hurt to ask, my feelings on the subject could always change. With that, I thought the subject was closed for the time being.

A month passes and I get a call from one of my neighbors. He's a retired guy that gets all of his entertainment from watching his neighbors and he's not squeamish about passing along information to interested parties. He told me there's a strange car in my driveway for the second time in two weeks. Last time two guys went in and stayed for a couple of hours and left. The same two guys just went into your house again. Just thought you should know. Bye.

I can be a bit trusting and naive sometimes, but it was painfully obvious there wasn't an innocent explanation likely. I took the rest of the day off and went home to find exactly what I expected.

I found them in the living room. She was being fucked from behind by one of them and sucking off the other. I'm not going to lie. I was actually a little turned on watching the scene. If I would have known I'd enjoy watching this I might have even suggested it, but the hurt and anger from her doing this behind my back overrode the arousal. They hadn't noticed me yet so I had the chance to collect my scattered wits a tiny bit and collect my thoughts a little. I backed up a bit to where I knew they couldn't see me and tried to think out how I was going to approach this.

The first thing that came to mind was she wanted me to know about this. Remember the neighbor? If she wanted to keep it from she'd be doing this someplace else. Which means she was throwing this right in my face. I decided to just make my presence known and see what happens.

I take a couple steps into the room. They didn't notice me yet. So I yelled "hey!, what the fuck are you doing!" The reaction was immediate and satisfying. The guy fucking her from behind immediately scrambled to the far side of the room as fast as he could. Apparently I surprised my loving wife and she bit down a little bit. It was just a little since I didn't notice any blood. Which was from my perspective a pity, but it was enough for him to yell ow, fuck and jump back. He spent the next couple of seconds checking himself for damage. The two guys gather their clothes get half dressed as fast as they can and leave in a hurry.

My wife had a look of shock and horror on her face. Stumbled over various combinations of how did you know, what you are doing here, etc... I tell not to play dumb, you knew damn well I'd find out. Doing it here was a deliberate slap in my face. I could tell she was really shocked and confused and I could see the wheels turning really and truly trying to figure out how I knew. If I wasn't so pissed it would have been funny. All I had to say was Mr. I didn't even have to get to his last name. She berated herself for her stupidity and asked me what now. What followed was a very long talk.

While in my mind this marriage is probably over and I plan on making preparations in that direction. Because of lessons learned in my first divorce we already keep seperate bank accounts and credit cards. So I'm already half way there. I decided to stay with her for now. I still love her I just don't trust her, besides sex with her is incredible. I might as well enjoy it while it lasts. After discovering I get turned on by her getting fucked by someone else, I agreed to consider doing three ways. We're going to let things settle for a while first, but I have to admit I'm looking foward to it now. She's already agreed if we start doing three ways the first one will be with a female. She told me she'll do anything to make this up to me and she seemed sincere. The next few months might be interesting and who knows if she doesn't do anything to cause me suspicion, maybe we'll end up staying together.

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by Anonymous on Apr 27, 2017 at 6:16 PM

Take the advice of someone who's been through nearly the same thing:
DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR WIFE !

She's obviously hot and very open to new things sexually.
Or she wouldn't have been able to line up two guys that fast.

She's probably wanted to try a 3-way with you and another guy for a long time.
And the desire became bad enough to finally go out and do it behind your back.

But now she's truly sorry.
She truly does not want to lose her marriage.

So she obviously loves you and will do anything you want her to do to save it.
And you have 10 years time of great sex with her already invested.
That's a long time for any marriage to have great sex.

So now that this has happened, don't make the stupid traditional mistake of divorce.
She made a mistake.
Make a real positive thing out of her mistake.
She'll love you all the more and fuck you all the better for it.

Tell her you forgive her and you want to take what has happened and make it a new beginning for a more exciting sex life that you believe can make you both closer and your marriage stronger than you ever dreamed.

Despite the shock, you got way turned on seeing her fucking other guys.
That's because it DOES WAY turn you on.
It in fact makes you really hot just thinking about it.

You can get past what happened and even over your bad experience from your first marriage if you change your attitude towards her and her new promiscuity.

Tell her that from now on, everything has to be above board, out in the open, discussed and approved ahead of time.
And for now, though it should be on your terms, you want to proceed forward together.

You can also tell her that first she must be punished.
And it can be in a variety of extremely fun ways that are very sexy for both of you without being degrading or unsatisfying.

Do the 3-way with a woman and see how you both like it.
Do it as many times as you feel like it.
Do it with different women until you find one that makes you both comfortable and everyone is satisfied.
That is a good start.

Then do a 3-way with a guy so she can enjoy.
Be sure he's not selfish and will not be over there behind your back.
Make the boundries clear to her without making her feel guilty.

Most of all, you and your wife should be united in that this is what you choose to do IN YOUR marriage and no one has the right to question that or your love for each other.

Wish I was you, pal.
If you play this right and fairly, your wife will become the sex goddess you always dreamed she would and you'll have years of great sex ahead.









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by Anonymous on Apr 27, 2017 at 8:52 PM

Ok #1 you make an incredible amount of sense. I never really expected any credible advice. I was just venting, but I read your comment shortly after you posted it. My wife asked me what I was reading and I showed her. She pointed at your comment and said yes, exactly. She kneeled in front of me and told me to punish her. To be honest i was at a complete loss. I had no fucking clue what to do at this point. So i told her she was to choose her own punishment. She asked that I not share what happened next so I will not, but you're right about societies views about fidelity and societies views on divorce. My hat is off to you. All I can say is I'm really sore right now and I wasn't the one being punished. She chose Well and I'm in for an interesting time ahead. Thanks again, You made a real difference.

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by Anonymous on Apr 27, 2017 at 9:59 PM

Make a porn a d put it online?

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by Anonymous on Apr 27, 2017 at 11:02 PM

This is #1 again.

Wow. Cool.
Your wife is awesome !
Never have thought my comments even were read half the time.
Let alone get such a positive response.
Thank you both.

I'm glad you liked what I said because I went through almost the exact same thing with my third wife.
She was so sexy and loved to fuck me.

She made a real bad choice that could've ended our marriage.
But it didn't because we didn't let it.
From then on, we communicated everything sexual between us and made it a bond of mutual lust and love.
We made her mistake work to our benefit and made our sex life eventually just super hot.


She had worked as a nude dancer for awhile and went back to it for a time.
I would go nearly every night to see her perform.
She began bringing some of her co-workers home for 3-somes with me to make up for what she'd done.
Nothing better than being in bed with two dancers!
And we both would have a blast.

Soon they all knew me by name down at this club and all admired both of us for having such a cool marriage with a hot and sexy wife that actually loved to dance nude in a club.

But it didn't seem to be enough and she began to tire also of a few creeps who regularly pestered her.
Then, because all my friends so clearly lusted after her, we discussed her fucking each of them.
She asked if I had a problem with her charging them a fee.
Make them clients individually with my permission and participation if I required it.

She was so thrilled when I agreed to give it a try.
The thought of her having sex for money was just so hot to me for some reason.

It always had really gotten her off and she had fantasized about it secretly many times but had never had the nerve to tell me.

And this all got started with my friends because of her punishment.
It was not like how your wife was punished.

Her punishment was two-fold:
She had to be nude every night from the time I got home from work until we went to bed.
She had to perform a nude lap dance for me in front of my friends
Both became not punishment, but fun hot things she eventually wanted to do often.

It took time, but eventually, I began to be fine with and trust her in every situation and she soon was doing anything she wanted.

I asked just two things:
#1. If it appeared that I was not going to be involved, let me know ahead of time exactly what she had in mind, with whom, where she would be, and when she'd return.
#2. Come straight home and fuck me while telling me all the hot sexy details that she liked or might want to do again.

Wish I knew where you folks lived.
I'd be honored just to talk with you guys about all this.
Do you live anywhere near Dallas, TX.?

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by Anonymous on Apr 28, 2017 at 4:54 AM

Hey #1, my wife just read your second comment and pointed it out to me. I think I created a monster showing her this site. She was up half the night reading posts. She told me it's giving her some ideas, but wouldn't tell me what those ideas might be. It looks like I'm in for a few surprises.

She liked the idea of staying nude in the evenings for me. I told her I would definitely enjoy that. So tonight we're ordering in pizza and she has to greet the delivery driver. Should be fun.

While I'm reluctant to say where we live on this site. What I can say is sadly we're not close to Dallas. Thanks again for your suggestions and advice.

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by Anonymous on Apr 28, 2017 at 6:54 PM

You are too trusting.

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2017 at 6:51 AM

So cool that you and your wife are both now reading these comments.
Glad she liked the nude idea.
It's really hot and actually became almost second nature for my wife.

In fact, she liked it so much it became the norm even after the so-called 'punishment' phase had ended.

We also did the pizza delivery thing.
Then we decided to try different pizza places until she answered the door to a delivery guy that turned her on.
Then she had the option to go for it or not.

The anticipation each time we ordered pizza built and built until when it did happen it was totally spontaneous and super super sexy.

To hell with the pizza we never ate.
It was the sheer thrill.

I have more stories of ideas we actually did if you are interested.
GO FOR IT !

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2017 at 1:07 PM

#1 here again.
Some other suggestions that spice things up:
Shave each other completely. You do her and she you.

First: no pubic hair; shave it; super smooth makes oral and masturbation way more
awesome; shave each other and make it a sexy, fun, adventure.

Second: go to a website called 'the erotic review'.
It reviews true professionals nationwide, city by city, with comments from all who
have procured services. Find one you both think might be good for your situation
and then have her provide explanations, input, instructions, Q & A, whatever.
It's a little pricey but way worth it and VERY hot.

Third: if your wife is as hot as I think she is, you need to take her out once a week
and show her off. And I mean strut it. No more panties, bras, and wear the
shortest skirts and sexiest clothes you dare. When you get the nerve, go together
to a top notch strip club and pick up a hot dancer. Most are bi and love wmw
action. This is super good stuff for your wife's self-image. Does wonders.

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2017 at 9:56 PM

Good suggestions #1

Although I'll have to admit the shaving each other us a nogo. I've been fighting like hell for her just to trim. I love a perfectly trimmed hairy bush. She claims it itches once it's growing back in, so she always shaves it clean.

Ok, fine you strike again. While I was typing that it just occurred to me. Perfect punishment. She's gonna be itchy for a while. Thanks agsin.

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2017 at 10:13 PM

Oh and #1, the pizza delivery boy turned out to be delivery girl, and by the look of complete shock and horror on her face kept us giggling for hours, it looks like we're finding a different pizza place for a while.

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by Anonymous on May 1, 2017 at 9:43 AM

#1 here again.

A pizza delivery girl?
Hahahaha.. wow.. what are the odds of that?

Bear with me because this is long winded.
Here's one other thing I did that helped me personally and that opened my wife's eyes to what she had done wrong and what we could do to make it work for us.

It may not be for you because we entered into other alternate lifestyles you may not be inclined towards or care to explore.

Let me give a little background first.
We were curious about the swinger lifestyle and we were exploring it by going to clubs and meeting people when she made a mistake similar to your wife's.

It happened I think because that lifestyle does not come with instructions and erroneous assumptions can be reached that aren't correct.
I'm not making excuses for what she did.
But in hindsight that was a factor.

We met a really cool, good-looking, experienced bartender at the swinger club we had been going to.
Well, he just really turned her on and she said so.

So she just went ahead and invited him to the house while I was at work the next week. And she fucked him repeatedly.
She was always very sexual with me when I got home from work, often naked or nearly so and eager to put my cock in her c**t right away if that's what I needed.
So I never questioned her about being so wet sometimes and, quite frankly, never cared.
Fucking her was just pure bliss.

This happened 2 or 3 days in a row.
The next day, he had an appointment to see his attorney and could not come by.
When she asked him to re-schedule his meeting, he said that he owed his attorney money and could not re-schedule the appointment because he needed to go over his case with him and work out a payment plan.

My wife, being hot, spontaneous, and just plain naughty, asked if his attorney was open to 'alternate types' of payment.
She ended up doing a 3-some in the attorney's office.

All of this was unknown to me until the bartender called me at work that day.
On the way home from the attorney's office she had told him not to tell me.

He was shocked that I didn't know and told her so.
He chewed her out and explained what the 'swinger lifestyle' really meant.

It was about protecting your marriage by being honest.
It was about learning how to love your spouse while openly sharing them.

It was about putting their pleasure before your own, watching them enjoy themselves with others sexually and overcoming the natural jealousy that accompanies it all.

It was about being reciprocated in the same way and then being able to build on all of that to make your marriage better and richer.

He said that he was mad at himself because he should've asked her first if I knew before he laid a hand on her.
I said well, maybe, but that if I had been in his shoes, I probably would've fucked her anyway because she's just the sexiest damn woman to be with.
He paused...then we just both burst out laughing.

Point is, I knew he was being sincere in the hig picture.
And everything he had explained was correct.

People diss that lifestyle, but the basic premise behind it is sound... if you can hack the learning process and be with the right people.
The single most destructive sexual act in a traditional marriage is to cheat.
Cheating involves a willful intent to deceive.

Anyway, though I had not walked in on her like you did, I was still pretty upset.
The laugh helped and I thanked him for calling.

So when I got home, she was crying and apologizing, do anything to make things work, please don't divorce me, end etc, etc.

Just like your wife did.
I had really thought about what he had said.
So that's when the 'punishment' light bulb went off in my head.

I told her to get naked and put my cock in her mouth.
While she did, I called him up and told him what we were doing, and invited him back over so we could make this right and all work properly.

He did, was very respectful, open, and even showed me some things I had never known before (like exactly how to make her squirt) all of which we incorporated into our sex life.

He was always our favorite and also our friend.
I know it helped me get over her mistake by fucking her with him afterwards, by talking about what she liked and didn't like, and by re-affirming for me who was the husband and who my wife should the be most respectful towards.

Your wife was fucking two guys when you walked in on them.
If it helps in anyway, you might ask her why them, what did they do that she liked, and if it seems plausible, invite them back and have them fuck her with you the way you want to fuck her.

Just an idea and something that worked for me.

Ok. I've talked WAY too long again.
Best to both of you.

My email is doodahday1950@@g***l.**m if you ever want to talk more.
I have many stories and pics.
Would love to be a friend.
Thanks, Doug















Not knowing how much of novices we really were, he assumed I knew.


It was about understanding the power of the natural jealousy and possessiveness

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