Ladies, I'd like your opinion on something. My wife and I have been married for 20+ years. We have what I'd call a good sex life. Which means very vanilla. She doesn't have much of an adventurous side. I've recently gotten to wonder about something. Growing up, she never got into masturbation. I still do from time to time. Is that where your sexual adventurous side comes from -- because you've stimulated your brain so much during personal pleasure that that it is at the root of every sexual fantasy? I'd love to hear a females perspective. From those that did masturbate at a young age and from those that never got into it. Jerry.breedlove@@y***o.**m Please put Personal Pleasure in subject line. I'd love to hear all thoughts.