theres something I want to add to my question about my friend being gay. it's about this other guy, his friend that I think they are gay for eachother. about 1/2 a year ago this other guy was making a major play for me and I got really interested and we slept together a couple times. and then he would not call at all and acted really freaked out if he ran into me. so I guess this could mean a lot of things. and basically I was really surprised by his reaction and admitedly quite crushed. ok- but going deeper, most often in my life I know that the guys I sleep w/ are very very excited about our sex. I'm a sexy girl- it's one of my plusses- I'm a terrible speller so it balances out. but this guy didn't really cum w/ me and seemed incredibly nervous. I thought maybe he was nervous cause he really liked me or something. but doesn't seem like the case on reflection. the one time he got really hot when we were together is when our friend- friend A- the guy I wrote the previous confession about- left us alone in his apt. for an evening. and suddenly at one point we thought we heard him come home- oh, friend B had lured me onto friend A's bed for some heavy petting. so then friend B. goes and stands in the doorway of the bedroom looking out into the dark actually empty living room for sign of friend A. I come up behind him and start stroking him off- why not- and he gets sooooo hot- and then is like "do you think that thing we just did was dirty?" and I was like "no...?." but I wonder months later if he worried it was dirty because it was in the context of the possible presence of the other guy. anyway. then after that he didn't speak to me again for a long time. he called recently but I snapped at him to get lost. no more of that for me. but after licking my rejection wounds- and spending time w/ other guys. I think back about it all and the two of them. and I think they are gay for eachother. am I just protecting my ego or am I on to something?