I've been married for 7 years. For the last 2 years I've been having an affair with my female best friend. She's older than me and has been dating the same guy for 10 years. She also lives with her sister, who has no idea about our affair.

At first, we would sneak off to motels, or where ever else we could go to be alone, and fuck like rabbits. Then, eventually, guilt caught up with us and we decided to try to be good. That didn't last too long.

I do love my wife, but shes sort of a good girl and not nearly as good in bed as my friend. She's far more passionate and uninhibited than my wife. Aside from the sex, my friend and I also have way more in common and can spend hours talking. (I hate discussing serious topics with my wife because she always comes off as sort of a ditz and I find her conservative views kind of annoying at times.)

Lately, we've been trying to be "good" and haven't had intercourse in a few months, but we'll still get together and make out in one of our cars. Sadly, she won't let me venture downstairs anymore and play with her pussy while we're making out, no matter how hard I try, but she's always more than happy to give me a blowjob, which I find heavenly as she swallows every last drop of my cum. My wife refuses to give blowjobs, but my friend LOVES to give them, which is another reason why I love "hanging out" with her.

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by Anonymous on Oct 19, 2017 at 4:50 PM

I'm a little jealous. I would like to add "benefits" with my male best friend for a lot of the same reasons you mentioned. My friend is younger, fit and adventurous likes to engage in deep conversations that make you think.

I find intelligence so sexy!

I love my husband and he's intelligent as well, but after coming home from work he has almost no capacity to care about my day or talk about anything intellectually stimulating or treat me much more than a stress reliving toy to get off with and go to sleep. (Some nights that's hot; but a lot of the time I just feel like I've lost the bestfriend side to my husband.)

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by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2017 at 1:35 PM

#1 you're exactly right. (This is MY confession, by the way.) Having a woman that you can have an intelligent conversation with and who shares the same views with you is SO sexy. It also doesn't hurt that she has a much more powerful sex drive than my wife and does things that make me yearn for her. I actually asked my wife hypothetically one time how she would feel if I had an affair and she basically told me, "Just don't tell me about it. I don't wanna know." Because of this, I've often had the feeling that deep down inside she suspects that something is going on between my friend and I, but just ignores it, like the rest of our friends.

So, anyway, I say you should just go for it and add the "benefits" part with your male friend. As long as he understands your boundaries and that you have no intention of leaving your husband. I was extremely depressed and felt like my life had become meaningless before I met my friend and she made it clear that she wanted to be more than friends whether I was married or not. Now it's like a hole inside of me has finally been filled and I've found a way to have my cake and eat it too.

Good luck, kid. :)

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