To Amy and Maisie.
This is Doug.

If you are reading this you know who you are.

I responded to your initial post because you seemed sincere.
And because I honestly wanted to help you and believed I could.

In your case, and in your post you specifically asked for input to help you solve your problem.
You got the usual pompous criticisms typical to the smoke and mirror comments found on this site.

But I don't do that.
I never criticized or condemned your particular kinks.

If I post a comment, it's positive and supportive and based on experience.
If you choose to apply it, it might work.
In your case it did work.

I usually post my email because I truly want to be friends.
We traded a few and then you dissed me.

It's happened before.
Fuck it.
Glad I could help you and I wish you the best.

Kiss my ass too :))