I had a child when I was 13. The father was never identified for obvious reasons, the baby was given to my older sister to raise. My daughter turned 17 she was told everything but not who her father is. She won't accept that some things are better left alone.

She is asking for DNA tests, she is obsessed. I came close to telling her, but why? Because she is being nosy? it doesn't matter. Lives will get ruined, it's our skeleton in the closet.