I went with a girl from work to a ladies' bar. We were together so we weren't bothered. She wants a relationship, she says she would rather be with me part time than not at all. We went to that bar so I could see that the ladies there were pretty normal, except that they are looking for a girlfriend.

I let her make love to me several weeks ago. Not my first experience but my first since college, and with a relationship on the sidelines. I like the sex, I like her, but I am not sure I want to he in a lady relationship. I am not done with boys.