My husband and I after a year of marriage decided to start a family. He worked days, I worked odd shifts in a department store. After three months of trying I still hadn't gotten pregnant. One day an older friend of ours came by our apartment at lunch. I let him in wondering why he came by while my husband was at work. My husband had told him that we were having trouble getting pregnant. My friend said my husband sent him by to help. I asked how was he going to help. He walked over to me and hugged me up and said he would show me. I was shocked and didn't know how to react. I told him my husband should have talked it over with me beforehand. Our friend started fondling me all over while I was still confused. I decided it must be true so I yielded to him. We went to the bedroom and we both undressed. We foreplayed which he has good skills. We then proceeded to intercourse which he really gave me exhausting sex. He got up and said he had to get back to work. Before he departed he told me he lied about my husband telling him to come by to have sex with me. He said it is best not to tell my husband. I cried all afternoon. Our friend returned two days later and I let him in again. I tried to explain to him I wouldn't have sex with him. He wouldn't take no for an answer and shortly we were on the bed again. I have been having sex with our friend for 9 years now. I have 3 children. The oldest is my lovers child but the next two is my husbands. The cheating has been much less often with us both having family activities. I had my tubes tied so no more children. I enjoy sex with my husband but my husband climaxes so fast I rarely get my orgasm. My friend and I have long sex and I'm totally used and satisfied when finished. I know why his wife is always in a good mood and loves her husband.