I am a 32 year old guy. I just bought my first house. After I bought my house all of a sudden Cheryl, she has been my on and off again girlfriend for years decided she wants to move in and she is going to make the place homey. At a party the other night she talked with some of her friends that she is totally ready to start a family.

We aren't married, she is more a friend of mine, when we were real young in high school we had the hots big time and we both had sex with each other for the first time. I have had many, some not so nice and others much nicer girls but she has always been around, she even makes excuses for me having sex with these other girls telling me she is the steady one, always there for me, go smell the other flowers in the garden but I already picked her. If I have sex with the other girl she kicks her out and I sleep with her, she is the girl that is going to be there in the morning. I know that she has never had sex with anyone else. I am just not ready to settle down to one girl, I can even see myself giving her the kids she wants but I am not sure that I can give up the game to settle down.