Picky, Picky

My wife wants another man in our sex-life, but not just any man! He must be educated, interested in history, and happy to have her delegate my 'torture' to him, under her casual supervision. She offers my unconditional, unquestioning obedience, while kept in bondage, to his every need and whim, hopefully, in her eyes, my helpless compliance to being fucked at both ends, and driven nearly insane with endless orgasm-denial. She's not terribly interested in sex for herself, but would enjoy watching me being endlessly abused and subjected to ever- more imaginative bondage, involving sensory-deprivation, erotic asphyxia, and long spells of total isolation, in a small sound-proof closet, with a strong door and locks, to fantasize about the next 'torture' session.
I'm pretty sure she'll find someone to fit her specifications, sooner or later. Not sure if it scares me or arouses me, probably both...