I Won't Take Advantage Of A Younger Woman

I live with three other women in a shared two bedroom. My roommate is making a big deal out of an innocent thing. I am not for or against women sleeping together. It is a matter of choice, both women should choose. Not any different between a man and a woman, both should choose. I also don't believe that just because you sleep together that means your having sex. Women can sleep, and if they happen to spoon then they spoon. She got in bed with me, and I spooned her. We did not have sex.

She wants to sleep with me, when she sleeps with me she backs into me to spoon. I hold her, I don't feel her up, or make love to her. I spoon her. If I wanted to make love with her I would start by asking. If she wants to make love she needs to ask, I don't read body language when I'm falling asleep.

She is six years younger than me, she is young in her mind too. I will not take advantage of her. She can sleep with me, she can spoon with me. But if she is looking to make love she needs to speak up, not tell our housemate that I'm not showing her the affection she is expecting.