That Is A Good Question

I had by first bisexual experience when I twenty-four. I was single, and she was my age and also single, and we worked together.
Ferda was quite nice and she certainly didn’t seem like a lesbian. Just more this young woman who liked being romantic with other female friends. I was intrigued, and I think the fact that she as black and I was white, somehow made it seem sort of exotic. So, with some trepidation I found myself being romantic with Freda. To my surprise and delight this was quite enjoyable. In no time the two of were getting naked and having sex and to me this was just the most wonderful and relaxed thing ever! I just found it so comfortable and easy to be like this with her.
Both the sex and the friendship with her was just incredible!
Well, over the next two years – two years! – our friendship started to turn into quite a serious love affair, and I found it hard to deny that I was no longer just being bisexual but that I was a lesbian. I was in love with another woman!
My parents were divorced, but I told my mom that I was having a relationship with another woman, and my mom was very understanding about it. She met Ferda and they got along just fine. My dad was far less accepting, which I expected.
Ferda told her mother and father and they were accepting of her being a lesbian, as they were aware of her bisexual side, whcoh she never tried to especially keep secret. Although they were a little surprised at her being in love with a white girl. Now that gets into another area of human problems, but suffice it t say that they liked me very much.
So I would have to say that my fist bisexual experience turned quite easily into a lesbian relationship. Ferda and I have been together for ten years and we have now been married for the last eight.
My point here is that not all bisexual females are lesbians. I think that is just a more casual and quite common arrangement that women enjoy with one another. In my case I think of myself as being a lesbian more out of convenience. In truth I don’t find myself attracted to other women as a whole, only to Ferda. So basically I am just bisexual and I suppose selectively a lesbian. Rather like having a car with optional four-wheel drive.