So Many Men Have Changed As We Get Older

I have found so many other men who are married, their wives have stopped having sex years ago and we're still wanting something. When this happened to me, I like many turned to watching porn and getting off that way. As time passed my attention started to pay more attention looking at not so much the women who were sucking cock, but at the cock. I started fantasizing about what it would be like servicing a man, and found myself getting off looking at cocks, men sucking cock, etc.

So, now that is where I am totally - I look very little at women, and I can say I don't even have any desire to have sex with another women, the appeal has been taken over by my cock fantasy. I started to explored and found a few bi sites that were full of others in the same predicament as me, and they were actively seeking other men to meet up for sex. Some were gay, but most were married in a no-sex situation, I couldn't believe how many men that were local are on these sites - it was like a hidden city just outside my door. They are all very open, showing themselves, chatting, saying what they like, etc. a complete change from what men usually are - you know we don't even talk to each other about jerking off - let alone asking for a bj.. They are not looking for love, just sex.

These sites really stirred up my new desire to have oral sex with another man, it took me a long while to fight my nerves and meet up with someone. I meet up with 3-4 guys had a coffee with them - and that was are far as it went. My desires kept growing and I finally was able to put my nerves off.

I meet up with my first guy, he made me feel very comfortable and before I knew it we were rubbing each other then we just moved into a 69 position and I took his cock in my mouth. My fears were over, after awhile I positioned myself between his legs and concentrated on blowing him - when he said I'm going to cum... I was so focused on sucking him - I just let him cum in my mouth. After it was all over on my way home I felt so relived and elated that I just sucked a cock and it was Great!

Are you in the same predicament? or have the same feelings? Like to hear your comments please.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 5:59 AM

It's not going to be your last ,cock is addictive now that you've broken the boundaries go and pleasure another , I remember my first time I wrapped my lips around a delicious cock made him cum damn I luv'd it

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 7:20 AM

I sucked a delivery man in the back of his truck. I offered to pay him and he accepted. Once I took the first step I was hooked. I hunt for cock to suck, from Walmart to an old fisherman at a marina.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 7:47 AM

I must confess as I get older this is on my mind though I would see it more in an MMF encounter it is something I think I want to try, so good luck to you :)

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 10:25 AM

I just read a similar post just now and will copy my response here for you, but absolutely agree.
Man sex once you're comfortable is just about the sex and the fun you can have.
You are so right! My delicious wife used to be a cocksucking sex fiend when we met over a dozen years ago. Pretty sure there were days when I'd see her in the evening but she had already sucked off another guy's cock in the afternoon.
Anyway, like lots of women, she's good to me and will still blow me when I want it but she's just not as totally mad for it and lots of women lose the desire as they get older. Mine is taking hormone therapy which is making it better, but it's just the natural way for women I guess.
The thing that lots of folks don't get is like you said, men are good for just fucking play sex with no lovey dovey bullshit. I mean gay men probably do kiss and love each other, but lots of guys just wanna have some raunchy fucking sex.
I don't see myself as a "lover" but as a sex play partner. Many years ago before I ever even met my wife I was real horny one night and met a young guy at the adult vid place. We went into a booth and before I knew it I had his jeans and shorts down and was licking his balls, making him hard.
He went completely nuts and started blowing a huge load on the wall when he felt my tongue deep in his fucking asshole! He was going crazy telling me to push my tongue in my master's ass and shit like that. He came like mad and I was right behind him cumming on the floor.
If I had the chance to do it with him agains I would like to 69 and suck each others loads out.
Would be interested in knowing some sites you found too.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 11:05 AM

On my 2nd frigid wife (they don't get frigid until you marry them) and I can tell you that it's thank goodness for other men. Men started blowing me in peep shows when I first started college at 18. It took me awhile to want one in my mouth but now I love extra big cocks just like anyone else. I love the challenge and especially like it if there's a 3rd party or more people watching. Rest areas. public bathrooms, wooded parks. They're all game for men looking for something extra.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 1:50 PM

yep married here in my 60's. Last time wife and I had sex was over 15 years ago the last time suck sucked my cock was at least 20 years ago. once they get that ring and menopause hits it's over. met a lot of guys like me. I love sucking cock and get mine sucked and love getting fucked. Love it when they shot there cum deep in my hole. Lots of guys out there like us but only a few take the plunge.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 2:07 PM

Same here. I blew my first guy 2 years ago, and have been in a regular relationship with a guy for over a year. I come over, we chat, then start sucking. He is very enthusiastic and always swallows, and I am the same way .Frankly, I consider myself gay at this point, and have no regrets.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 3:18 PM

Yeah, agree. Nothing wrong with some m2m sex. Get sucked off or suck cock or best of all do both.
Bottom line if it makes my dick spurt its goooood!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 24, 2021 at 7:41 PM

Think we're all of the same mind. Who cares if it's m2m or m2f or any combination?
Like the last commenter said, if it makes your dick spurt, it's goooood!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2021 at 6:14 AM

Omg I want blow each and everyone of you guys I've wrapped my lips around cock since before my wife experienced menopause and killed her sex drive sex with a man is great but I always like being the bottom it seems natural for me I also luv making out with my male lover as he slides his manhood deep in my tight little ass

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2021 at 5:45 PM

I’m in same boat, sex was slow for so many years then turned to a man for bj, he was secretly a dom to, that night he turned the tables on me and I sucked his huge cock, and he tied me up and fucked me all over that room, I came hands free while him setting in a str8 back chair and me ridding him, this was after he fucked me in the bed,I got caught on the pc by my wife, and stopped for some years, today I suck a few guys off regular m and got fucked for my first time in many years this week by an amazing top dom, I hope he fucks me 3-4 times a week from now on, I’m setting hear right now with a prostate massager going inside of me and know I’m going to cum do good

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2021 at 9:37 PM

Yes, sad to say many men are cut off when the wife is no longer interested. Finding a man to have good old dirty sex with is a great option. Men just want to get hard and have some fun, don't need to be romantic and all that.
Sucking a man's balls and getting him hard while he's doing the same to you is very exciting and addicting. Have never been fucked but have been fingered. Have been considering meeting with two men at once and being a real slut taking a spit roasting. If it happens I'll write about it here.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 4, 2021 at 1:25 PM

I have found many men start having sex with other men as they get older. Most of the guys I suck and am fucked by are over 50, and married. Contact me if you are going to be in NW Montana, and I'll prove it. rcriccarter google mail

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2021 at 1:43 PM

I’m in my 60’s and in the same boat as the rest of you. I had my dick sucked at 16 by two girls I fucked. Then my summer job boss, a guy of 40 or so convinced me to let him suck me. OMG, it was incredible. I tried to last as long as I could it felt so good. After that I was a little curious but not something I moved on. I had lots of girls but at that age it’s never enough. One of my friends and I had spent a summer jerking each other off, he initiated but I couldn’t quit. We were 13 or so. So I’m getting pussy and the guy I work for sucks me and me and my friend hadn’t touched each other in 3 or 4 years.
He and I end up together HS graduation night. Long story short he wants to jerk me and we end up naked in his car. He was a skinny bookworm and I was star athlete in HS. His dick had grown so much, it was way thicker than mine and a couple of inches longer. I was overcome with the desire to suck him and I did. We sucked each other for five years after that until he split town one day.
So a couple of years ago I started seeking some male attention. I haven’t found a regular, I need someone like me, mostly a straight guy just in it for pleasure.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 12, 2022 at 6:58 AM

I am not sure now I want to start sucking cock and eating cum but want to give it a shot

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 23, 2023 at 8:20 AM

Most of the guys I suck cock with are married. The area I am from has a relatively small population, yet I have sucked cock with over a hundred men over the years. From that number, I'm sure there are a lot more around who would also like to suck a cock if they had a chance, and weren't afraid of getting caught. The majority of the men are 50+. It's so much easier to find a man who wants to suck and be sucked, than to start a relationship with a woman.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 31, 2023 at 12:54 AM

I am in my 60's and wife cannot anymore due to health. I have been pleasing myself by watching Bi videos. Yes I want to try a 69 . Just oral.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 17, 2023 at 6:09 AM

It is encouraging to hear from other “ straight” husbands who suck dick after the wife looses interest! I never thought I would suck a dick but being sex starved, I started going to adult stores and discovered glory holes! After receiving two great blow jobs, one day a guy asked me to reciprocate so I did! I was amazed how hot it was! After losing my mouth cherry it was easier for me to suck guys and enjoy it. It’s so erotic I think I enjoy sucking dick more than getting pussy now! Nasty sex with another guy is so hot!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 5, 2023 at 5:06 AM

I loved reading these. They made me cum twice while reading. I was in the same boat. My wife wouldn’t suck my cock or let me fuck her any more so I found book stores. I was curious. I stuck my dick through the hole and got amazing blowjobs. And I came in their mouths. Then a guy stuck his dick through so I tried it. The feeling of his cock, how warm it was I sucked on the head and then down his shaft. Until I felt and tasted him cuming in my mouth. After that I was hooked. It took a while but every once in a while I would swallow it. It tastes so good. I eat my own cum every time. At least one load a day. One time I was sucking on a dick through the hole and another guy came in. As I was sucking the cock in the hole he took out his cock I reached over and pulled him to me and started sucking his cock too. He kept reaching down my back inside my pants so i I clipped my belt. He got behind me and pushed my back down bending me over. It was such a turn ion I just did as he wanted. He slid his cock in my ass and started fucking me. It felt so surprisingly good. I went back to sucking the cock in the hole while the other guy was fucking my ass. I couldn’t believe I had 2 cock inside me. Just then the guy started cuming in my mouth and it was a lot. I kept gulping it down until he was done cuming and his cock disapeard. The other guy was fucking my ass so good until he came deep inside my ass. It felt amazing feeling his cock pulsating and pumping cum inside me, spirt after spurt I was so turned on. I still fantacise about it. Since covid started I have not gone and have not sucked on a dick since but want to again. I watch m2m videos and think of sucking on a man I love giving head and swallowing cum. I live in the Los Angeles area about 30 min east by the mountains if anyone is interested.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2023 at 12:10 AM

I’m in the same boat sex every blue moon do I go to Adult bookstores and adult theater and play i use Sniffies and found a neighbor just on the other street and we blow each other now!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 31, 2023 at 4:52 AM

I can relate to this my girlfriend is only 35 I am58 at first the sex was great but then I told her how I sucked dick when I was young I haven't done it in years but I have been checking out bi and gay porn my girl caught me watching it and I had the biggest hardon so she says are you gay i told her that she is tripping and i dont know how that got on there ever since the sex is rare between us so i have really been checking out the bi or gay porn and get off on it i really want to suck a nice big fat cock like this a 10 inch cock that turns me on anybody out there who has a cock that big that wants me to deepthroat i can do it tonight

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2023 at 8:59 AM

I'm 68 yrs old mwm and an oral bottom to a half dozen locals that like me, just enjoy getting naked with another man. I start panting as I go down on my knees to suck the honey due off their lilies. Even better when I'm told to get up and turn around. My gorgeous wife of 46 yrs still gives up her tight little pussy but just not the same sensation of a cock sliding into your holes knowing your about to take their hot nectar as they start to moan in pleasure. I started sucking about 5 yrs ago after sucking 3 cocks in college and never forgot the the feeling of a warm cock sliding across my lips.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 9, 2024 at 4:31 AM

Love these stories.Im a 52 year old straight white man but my girlfriend passed away four years ago and I've been alone.i watched gay porn few years ago and I was turned on and I always liked doing anal on females.i was curious and got a dildo and used and I wouldn't tell anyone I know but I love it.i still haven't been with another guy but I'm wanting to experience it.i want to try sucking cock and I really want to feel a guy slide his hard throbbing shaft in me thrusting me.i really want to do it all .me topping him also but if I only can have one thing then I want him inside of me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 2, 2025 at 7:38 PM

Widower now. What to try 69 with an man about the same size. 7 inches in length by 6 inches girth.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 23, 2025 at 12:38 PM

I’m a married guy 79. Due to prostate problems I had to take hormone therpy to remove my testosterone. After 6 month my dick shrank 50% and doesn’t get hard! Since I couldn’t get hard I developed an interest is looking at other guys getting hard on line. After a while I started going to xxx places with glory holes to look at hard dicks! When one came thru the hole I told myself I’d just play with it. I could hear the guy saying” go ahead, suck it man” so I did! I became a cock sucker that day and I never quit!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2025 at 8:48 PM

Love the stories about starting to suck cock as an older man. I have to confess , I think I always wanted to suck cock. The first adult cock was the first night at university. Loved it - yes loved sucking cock!! I did it every night for maybe a wk. did not want to be a cocksucker so I stopped. No more, when I was around 65 I became a gay porn addict. Again once I stated again I was obsessed. My Grindr add stated no reciprocation needed. I think a true homo does not need to be sucked. On holidays I go to gay sex clubs ‘ I am a true homo there. My goal is always to be rewarded with cum. I minimum time to receive cum at one afternoon would be 15-20. If I was young today instead of in the 1960’s I know I would have been a well fucked - cocksuckkng cd.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 27, 2025 at 4:25 AM

So many married men love sucking cock, it natural it a feeling of XTC

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