Just So Unsure.

Its been 5 years since my long term girlfriend decided we were not having sex anymore. After a year or so I gave up and figured that was that and from then on it was just the odd wank. I really love this girl and wouldn't purposely wreck this relationship.

A few months ago I was contacted by a 28 year old girl out of the blue. Because of covid she had been laid off and was looking to make a bit of money to tide her over. We have met up several times and had heaps of fun. However I just can't 'seal the deal' so to speak. Not sure if it's trauma or medication or whatever. I have never had a problem prior. My dr understands and gave me a script for blue tablets. It didn't work. Any suggestions would be most welcome.

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by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2021 at 12:51 AM

Hey brother, I'm mwm, 67, with a wonderful younger wife. Thanks to age, prostate issues and meds I too have this frustrating ED problem. I get horny as hell at the drop of a hat but instead of getting hard and stiff, the lazy bum just leaks precum like crazy. So I get my shorts wet but no rise.
What we found out and what might just work for you is my wife gets down and gives me an amazing and wonderful blowjob. Obviously it won't work for everyone, but she loves giving oral and has loved it since she was a teenager, so she's really good at it.
She will start by kissing and licking my balls, then sucking them, then taking my cut 6 inches in her lips and goes to town on me. I do get hard in her mouth. Sometimes I will be loving it and almost ready to cum and the lazy thing gets soft again. But she's a trooper and keeps using her mouth and her hands and she will always get me to cum. She always wants it in her mouth and she always swallows too.
So in the end what it comes down to for me is I need the extra stimulation of a great BJ and I'm good to go. Best of luck and hope this was a little helpful.
BTW, I was desperate because the blue pill and the yellow pill both stopped working for me too.

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by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2021 at 1:05 AM

Your girlfriend has your brain all fucked up. I get you love her, but if she loves you, she'll understand your a man with needs. If she's not willing to meet those needs, she should allow someone else. If she's not okay with that, maybe you should consider leaving. I well almost guarantee your problem will go away right afterwards.

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by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2021 at 11:33 AM

Agree with previous post. Have a real discussion with your girl. Tell her you understand she is done and you support that. But she needs to understand you are not. She needs to either, give you sex, give you a hall pass, or move on. You still have the right to feel like a man.

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by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2021 at 10:10 AM

I'm in the same situation... it'll probably be guilt getting in the way...

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