Frustrated

I lay here with my sleeping naked wife. We love each other dearly. Sex is few and far between. We passionately kiss several times a day. We kiss good bye and hello when I come and go. Men, I want her but she doesn't seem to want me. She says she does but hardly ever follows through. We are both overweight but attractive. We keep good hygiene and are in professional circles.

I am frustrated. Yes I have pleasure myself and even watched vids on the internet but I want my wife.

I am willing to be with other men or women. As a matter of fact I have been only out of pure need. Help is requested either way. Email advice or one on one contact until intimacy happens between my wife and me. I believe there are others on the same predicament.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2021 at 5:06 PM

I hear ya. Same thing going on in my home. But my wife does give it up at times but not often at all. It’s very frustrating because she is so hot with a sweet body. I just don’t get it. And too boot. When we do have sext she actually cums but she’s just not into sex like me. If i never asked for sex again I’m sure she would have no problem with it. She use to be very sexual but over years she lost her desire for it. I too have been toying the idea of being with a other men or a woman but have never gotten the nerve to really do it. I think it would be nice to suck a man off and get sucked my a man but not knowing the other person’s life style worries me . A woman friend with benefits would be great too but the reality is I feel the odds are better having sex with a guy are better because for the most part guys are more sexual and adventurous sexually. I still prefer women by a long shot but I get so sexually frustrated that having sex with a guy would be nice also.

I really have no advice for ya because I’m in the same shoe wanting the same thing and not knowing how to actually go about getting what I want. If we only lived next door or in the same city . :) Well let me know how things work out for ya and how you fixed the problem .

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2021 at 5:19 AM

My wife and I have been together for 32 years. We have sec at least once a week. I would like it more often but she is usually asleep by the time I come to bed. We have watched porn together, we fantasize about 3somes with another woman. We read erotica together.we play with toys. We experiment. That makes it intriguing. Good luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2021 at 1:17 PM

Well I think every man finds himself in this boat, my wife and I have been together for nearly 35 years, she was smoking hot when we meet and sex was great till we married snd her kids brought so many problems to our marriage, we survived those terrible years, but our sex life was very bad, I had an ultra high drive and like others hers was almost none existent!!! We talked many ,many times, nothing changed, I finally turned to getting head from other men, till one 4 day trip y wife took out of town, I went to CL ,my first time,,,,I chatted with a married guy that his wife was out of town, he invited me over, after a bit we went to take a shower together, once he removed his cloths I got so turned on, his body snd cock where amazing, in the shower he sucked my cock ,but then stood up and guided me to his much bigger cock, I sucked my first, then once out of the shower he took me to bed, he was dominant and I just melted into submission,
I did so many things I never thought I would do, including being tied snd fucked ,I came hands free while sliding Dow his cock as he set in a chair,,,it was powerful, amazing and I went back all four days, it changed me, about 3 years later my wife busted me on my pc email,
After that we patched it up and life got much better, sex was better and I think she new she had to be more sexual, I’ve never been given any excuse or told no since !

I will tell you though, once you experience another man’s cock you can ever go back,
I have learned to enjoy giving head, I secretly have one guy i please 1-3 times a week over the last 16 months , and another that I enjoy having inside of me, I’m safe at all times, but the pleasure is very real,

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Musket

by Musket on May 11, 2021 at 3:53 AM

Like all the other replies, many wives just give up and we turn to other means... and many of us start having sex with other men. And it's true once you suck a cock, the sensation, Sexual satisfaction and desire... your never going back. After I sucked off my first guy I was so relived afterwards - I was floating on air... and couldn't wait to do it again.

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Thedogtree

by Thedogtree on Sep 21, 2021 at 6:24 AM

I took my first cock in college. I knew when the head of the cock slid across my lips that it wasn't going to be the last. Now at 66yo and just celebrating 45 years of happy marriage to a hot wife that always cums like a porn star. That does not appease my desire to entertain a mans cock. I made the contact on CL a few years ago and got to experience that sensation once again. M_M sex is so unlike M_F sex. Like the posts before me, sex has gotten stale and she shares little interest in trying new things. It is a hell of lot easier to hook up with guys with the same needs. No drama.

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