I Don't Get Him Why He Acts Like This

So I met this guy on facebook and we started chatted for a while he wasn't a complete stranger we discover that we work in the same field and have mutual friends, and he said that he likes the way I look and after a while of chatting we started to see each other.

We only dated like for 3 times in almost 2 months because he works a lot and in weekends he prefers to go to his parents house in another town rather than dating.

He is 35 and I am 31, but he makes me really confused because while we are dating he never tried to  get closer to me, to hold my hands or be more tender to me like a future boyfriend.

I don't get him at all, why is he asking me out then?

After dating he rarely texts with me and I have to wait for days to get news from him.

He sometimes acts odd, I wish knew why he acts like this.

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021 at 2:45 AM

He's not into you like that. Dump him and find someone who is.

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BB101

by BB101 on Jun 3, 2021 at 3:04 AM

Married or already in a relationship.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021 at 4:06 AM

Yup. Find someone that can be with you. On weekends he's on lockdown with his spouse or SO. Also because of their presence he can't text or communicate freely.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021 at 4:39 AM

The real question to ask yourself is why you are willing to be with someone who provides you so little. You must feel like you don’t deserve better. Break this off entirely and begin a search to discover what makes you happy and try to find someone who fits better into your life and makes you happy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021 at 6:22 AM

He's not into you. Move on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021 at 7:14 AM

Dump him. Hes got something else going on that hes not telling you and its not worth the hassle and drama to find what it is. Youd be better off by yourself than to deal with this. I am married, Ive had girlfriends (mrs has had her own bfs) and I'm always upfront from the start about my status and that I'm not changing it. Some gfs are ok with it some not.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2021 at 8:14 AM

He may be in the closet for his parent's sake and is maintaining the loosest of relationships just so he can reassure them he has a girlfriend. He hasn't gotten physical with you because he's not wired to want that. In the terms of Hollywood, you're his 'beard'. Unless he's even more Hollywood and pays you well, look elsewhere for romance.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 7, 2021 at 5:45 AM

Hello, I am the official poster, it's been over a week now since our last date and he didn't even text me once since then.
What I have noticed on facebook is that in the last couple of days he added lots of women who look really cheap and like to expose body parts in pictures, breasts etc.Well, I think he like hoes and doesn't like me because I am not slutty or look for one nights stands.
I will not be the one to text him like I always did, he doesn't seem to be into me that much so I think that I should just move on, he's not the one for me.

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