She REALLY Didn't Like It

I talked my wife into pegging me for the very first time - we ordered extra lube, a small dildo, and a set of panties with an open crotch and a ring to insert the toy of your choice. She put it all on and it looked super hot, I was so excited.

But it just didn't work out, from the get. She was awkward and stiff the whole time, and complained a lot about the fit of the panties and how the dildo was sitting on her. She wasn't comfortable, one bit.

So she stiffly fucked my ass, I didn't even get to cum, and then she was upset the rest of the night because the whole thing made her feel "wrong somehow." She doesn't want to try it again, saying "I'm sorry, I just don't get into this - you have the dick, I want that dick. Not to have my own."

So that's that, I guess. We tried - back to vanilla world for us.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2021 at 3:02 AM

Unfortunately my wife was like that to. She just couldn't allow herself to completely let go and enjoy sex for for the sake of pure pleasure. When she sucked my cock she would only put the knob in her mouth, didn't want me to cum on her face and would spit out my cum. No doubt you get the idea (and frustration).

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by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2021 at 3:29 AM

Bummer. The difference between certain fantasies and making them real, right? You have a choice at that point - either not worry about the fantasy any longer or it becomes such a need you have to move on. I'll stay and try something else - she did go through a short period where she liked to finger my ass with latex gloves. Maybe that's the compromise.

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by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2021 at 9:08 AM

As an older and VERY happy married man, I can hardly imagine how hellish it must be to have a wife who's not able to relax and be openminded about sex and pleasing each other. Not every act is gonna be a turn on for everyone, but I have found that being open and willing is a key element to happiness in the bedroom.
I have also found that certain things may have never seemed all that hot to me, but finding that they turn my wife on makes me very willing to try and have even found some things that I really enjoy but wouldn't have done on my own.
My wonderful wife is the same way. She lets me do things with her or to her that she may never have thought were her "thing" but has found she really gets off on pleasing her man.
Bottom line, I don't think I could compromise on things like this.
Not a question of swallowing or not or a question of pegging or not, it's a question of your partner being happy to do things that please you.
I try to be pretty non-judgmental especially about sex, but it's sad that in the 21st century there are folks clinging to absurd ideas of so-called morality and not open to trying new things.

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by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2021 at 9:30 AM

I went down this exact same path. Had all the gear and she said "I don't want to be a guy". Ummm well I wasn't asking you to be. The most irritating thing is she doesn't think about doimg it for me that I might enjoy it. But this is a woman who never tells me what she likes or her fantasies out of fear I might use her turn ons against her, I guess to initiate sex. And equated my cum to "snot". Oh that makes me feel good, lol. Of course that means no oral but she never has a problem with me going down on her. The thing that pisses me off the most, I've had a few woman in my life since I've been married who wanted sex, and it would just flow naturally and easy and hot. With the Mrs it's always clumsy and has to be "scheduled" and such. I will never leave because of my kids but our sex life is nonexistent. The irritating thing is, she's very hot looking. Guess it just proves not all hot women are good in bed. At least not with me anyway, lol.

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