Past Girlfriend Contacts Me After Over 30 Years

I really don’t know how to put this but we dated awhile, 6 to 8 months when I was 19. She was 15. I met her parents and they approved, still could have been statutory r**e but I didn’t know what that was back then.
We were crazy about each other and we broke up for a silly reason which I won’t go into. We never had piv sex. We both wanted to but I was very hesitant, I was crazy about her and she was a virgin.
She contacted me on FB and we started messaging each other daily for several weeks. She told me she and her gf were talking about old BFs and I came up. Later she said her gf started laughing because she went on about me so long and never told her about any others. After that she started thinking about me all the time and had to contact me.
She is happily married but told me their sex life was over for a long time. They have a place on the water not far from where I live. We live in different but adjoining states. Long story shortened, she wants to get together when she’s coming thru town. She hasn’t come out and said it but told me she REALLY wants to see me. She used caps.
I’m also in a sexless marriage and I am so excited about her interest after all these years. She is still gorgeous. Am I about to make a huge mistake or what?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2021 at 2:46 PM

Well don't worry about her and her decision. Worry about yours first. Sex us important in a healthy marriage. If there's no chance in resurrecting it in your relationship, then you need to consider what will give you the most happiness for the time you have left on this rock. If your kids are grown and risk no harm from a marital change, I would consider it. Otherwise no. One thing for sure if you do start having an affair, it will only be a matter of time before wifey finds out. So if you do it be prepared to go all in.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2021 at 8:18 PM

No harm in trying it once. It might lead to nothing or… stranger things have happened.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2021 at 8:56 PM

If you want to split up with your current partner then be very careful. If its just friendship and even sex then if you’re discreet go ahead. dlvwyyv

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 23, 2021 at 1:29 AM

I basically did what she did. I track as many ex-bf's on the net as I can. I friend any ex that will friend me back. Even though that was all ages ago, I still think of them and like to see what they are up to.

The one I had or am having my affair with lives several hours away so its more like an every few years thing, so I'm never exactly sure if its over or just waiting for another chance get together. For us, it seems to have helped both of our marriages as we are happier people afterwards

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