It's funny, my mother and brothers all have the knack of befriending their neighbors- they have block parties, and have them over for dinner.
Not me- i'm a private person, I want nothing to do with my neighbors- i don't want their friendship, I don't even want to know their names.
I'm having issues with the 300 pound woman one apt above me- i'm a very quite tennant, but she can hear my tv at night, and has come down to bang on my door 3 times. ..I hear her stomping her elephant feet as she walks accross her floor, yet I have never complained....
My family members told me I should be apologetic and nice, or she may raise a stink with the landlord...Should i grit my teeth and make nice? I really hate this woman- I am very courtious if and when i pass her and her chubby chaser boyfriend- i always say hello- But they scowel at me....
I don't want to do anything that will jeapordize my living here, as i have a cushy deal with rent...Should I kiss my scum neighbors ass?

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by Anonymous on Jun 28, 2008 at 1:59 PM

i have the same problem.

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by Anonymous on Jul 4, 2008 at 6:56 PM

No, it won't help to kiss up to her. Pretend to be a violent bigot with mental problems. That might scare her off.

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by Anonymous on Jul 6, 2008 at 9:11 AM

Don't kiss up to her. People like your neighbor loathe themselves for being gargantuan out-of-control pigs. If you're nice to her, she will think you're even lower than she is. Be direct and businesslike. Tell her the stomping is preventing you from enjoying your apartment and you're unable to sleep or relax with her feet pounding overhead. This is affecting your health and it must stop. Tell her you're bringing this to her attention as a courtesy. If you don't notice an improvement you'll be forced to take action. Be vague about what you'll do. The implied threat may scare her.

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by Anonymous on Jul 18, 2008 at 5:39 PM

Maybe you should look more into your own problems as to why you are so anti-social. Not wanting to even know your neighbors names is just weird. Were you always a loner? You'd be best to move to where you can really be by yourself and not live with such hatred in your heart all the time. Peace...

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by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2008 at 8:41 AM

This is a reply for the person who said you are antisocial. It is people like you who judge others that cause all the problems. I am also a private person. I am social all the time but when I am home it is my sanctuary. The one place I am allowed to be by myself and make no excuses for it! I am not so insecure that I need constant people around to enjoy myself. I (as I am sure others do) enjoy my own company and need a certain amount of solitude to recharge and center myself. Maybe you need to learn why it is you can't be alone and need to interact constantly... I say this as I have a whole neighborhood of people like you. And I am constantly getting crap for not coming out and hanging out with everyone. Neighbors are just that - neighbors. You know them because you live close - not because they are people you CHOSE to be friends with. You are not obligated - it is your home.

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by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2008 at 5:42 AM

why is it that everyone on this site must use someones weight as a reason to dislike ones neighbor. Excuse me, but I know plenty of skinny ugly slutbags who create way more trouble and are way worse neighbors than my large neighbor who lives right next door to me. She must weigh 300 lbs but she is a nice, quiet smart woman who works full time and is a single mom who is an amazing parent. However, on the other side of me is a skinny, big haired slut who has 2 kids 12 and 6 the 12 year old already does drugs drinks and has sex and the 6 year old still wears diapers to bed because no one bothered to potty train her. But oh yes, she must be perfect because hey, after all shes not fat right? I find its the skinny slutty skanks who tend to be fucking annoying white trash neighbors 99% of the time.

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