Femdom Etiquette

I am a dominant bi female who loves to dress sexy daily. Heels, hose, sexy undies, the works. I am always impeccably done up and look my best for my play partners. As such I expect them to at least give their best effort.
Today I had a young gentleman sent by a friend who was begging to be feminized because his wife just didn’t understand. So just for fun I decided to help him out. I’m big into fetishes and figured it would be a good time.
Here is my issue. If I go through all the trouble to get myself dressed to the nines, fulfill your fantasy by helping you to get all dressed up and done up at least be able to perform properly. 20 minutes of begging and oh yes mistress shouldn’t lead to you not being able to properly eat my pussy, or feel me up properly, or even get your junk to work as you are on your knees moaning and begging to cum on my hosed feet. In the end the big hot load I was promised was a few drops on the floor. I had my orgasm with the hitachi in front of the mirror after I kicked him out of my place without letting him put his man clothes on till he was in the hallway.
My friend owes me a good fuck with him and his wife after this flop with his friend.
Anyone else run into this?