Where Are All The Sexual Sadists?

Been trying for ages to find one or more sexual sadists with a need for endless oral services, from a tireless tongue, or a near-virginal ass to invade, endlessly...only down-side is I need to be kept in my escape-proof rubber-lined canvas bag, with appropriately located zippered openings. Used to be sick nasty b......s out there who were okay with that, since it gave them absolute power and total control. while savoring the ultimate power-trip of rationing or withholding air, to enforce total and unquestioning obedience, but nowadays they've been largely replaced by "politically correct" wusses with little or no cruel streaks...where are all the 'alpha' males, the control freaks? Do they even exist any more?