As a homeowner, I have less rights to live in peace than if I lived in an apartment. As a homeowner, if you have a problem with your neighbor (loud music etc) you are told by the police that they can only tell them to stop what they are doing and that's it. If you live in an apartment, the landlord will give them about 3 chances and then they can evict them. I had apartment neighbors that were very loud and the manager evicted them after 3 complaints (not just by me).
It seems to me that when some people move into houses they lose all the manners their mothers taught them. They think that their loud music doesn't penetrate their walls and if they do, they don't care. They don't care if their driveway looks like a trash bin because they fail to pick up their newspapers (when they are not on vacation). My generation (late babyboomers) have become self-centered, rude and crude. Our parents did not raise us like this! We set the examples for our children!

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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2003 at 8:14 PM

Exactly !

Please review the replies to the "Neighbor is video taping us" thread for my explanation as to what is causing this to happen to you. After you've reviewed the posts come back here and read the rest of this message.

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No matter what you hear on TV there is no such thing as the "middle class" There are actually only two classes - The upper class and the lower. What people call the "middle class" is actually the "upper-lower class." Why is this so? Because the so called middle class and the lower class are distinguished almost always by income alone. In terms of lifestyle, manners, goals, viewpoint, attitude etc they are very similar to each other while sharing almost nothing in common with the upper class. Take for example the pickup truck. This vehicle is owned by a wide range of people, from illegal aliens to mid level managers at large corporations. However the pickup truck is rarely, if ever, seen at the homes the upper class (which I define as $5,000,000 or more) There are many other examples that can be thought of but I think you get the idea.

Now on to apartments. When you live in an apartment you are living mostly with members of the middle-lower class. You realize this, of course, and feel that if you could just buy a house you could escape from this hell hole. So you work and you save to buy that dream house and find to your horror that you moved from living in an apartment with the middle-lower class to living in a house with the upper-lower class.

Things will not have change much. Look around. Your new neighbors are pretty much the same folks you thought you'd left back at the apartment. They are just as rude. Just as dirty, and Oh my God! they have the same pickup trucks!

I bought a condominium once. I thought that this was the answer to the apartment hell hole. I found that a condominium is nothing more than an apartment the you can't break the lease on!

99 % of the public are all the same. They are all members of the lower class. I'm sorry for you but there is no escape. Only large amounts of money can buy your freedom from the spot you've found yourself in.

Good luck to you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 7, 2003 at 2:29 AM

The "middle class" is really just a marketing myth. This is just a term invented to describe lower class people with better jobs. This entire social strata was created after World War Two by a series of government, and other, programs providing easy money for people who would otherwise be living in rented housing and making a living driving a bus or digging trenches. Programs such as the GI Bill, financial aid at colleges, car loans, the 30 year-5% down mortgage, tract housing, unemployment insurance, social security, credit cards (as opposed to "charge cards"). Later, came other wonderful innovations: The $250.00 airfare, car leasing, and the all time favorite of the so called "middle class" - the home equity loan. All these programs have allowed the lower class to perpetuate the illusion that somehow they are different from the bus drivers and the trench diggers who have yet to discover the joys of these programs. As you found, the "middle class" is just the lower class with better stuff. This is why wonderful new neighborhoods of cookie cutter tract housing decays so fast. You've taken a bunch of trailer trash, loaned them $150,000 with $3000.00 down and moved them into a brand new home. You haven't changed anything save now calling them "middle class." They don't maintain the houses, they park their cars on the street and in the yard. Within a very short few years the new neighborhood is looking like the old trailer park.

Have you seen "It's a wonderful life"? You have to watch it carefully so as to avoid being brainwashed by Frank Cappra in this movie. Remember Mr. Potter? He knew what I'm describing. Mr. Potter was an old-money member of the upper class. He saw customers of the savings and loan borrowing money (mortgages) to buy things they couldn't afford (new houses) and was shocked. They made his character a "mean, broken down old man" to emphasize the point that without borrowed money the "middle class" would be forced to live in what they could afford - rented housing.

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by Anonymous on Nov 12, 2003 at 8:35 AM

Never thought I would agree with anything like this, but that describes my neighborhood. I keep my house up and take care of the yard, as do most of my neighbors, but to the rest the front yard is just a place to park your car and keep your excess garbage. Right now the house accross the street is being rented to 8-10 Spanish speaking men, I call it the bunkhouse.

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by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2003 at 7:32 AM

The "rent house" signals the absolute end of a neighborhood.

The "rent house" is always owned by some dirtbag and is always rented to other dirt bags.

Your house is now worth half of what it would be before the rent house was established.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2003 at 8:18 PM

Burn the rent house.

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