Am I Gay Or Am I A Deviate

Way back in college I had a friend Steve and one night after a few too many beers I sucked his cock. Over the last 40 years I've sucked several men. I'm going to retire and I'm thinking of coming out as gay. What I am still struggling with is what is gay? I have never been attracted to a man emotionally. I am attracted to sucking cock, and I've participated in anal sex, as the bottom.

Mostly I have felt that my attraction is a deviant sex attraction. For those who care to comment, am I gay? Or am I straight with a deviant streak?

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ForbiddenLove

by ForbiddenLove on Jan 17, 2022 at 9:36 AM

First, I hate labels. I consider myself bisexual, I enjoy sex with men & women, but I prefer women. Don't worry about straight, bi or gray. Just have fun.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 17, 2022 at 10:36 AM

What 'ForbiddenLove' said. You are what you consider yourself.

Now then, and this is a touchy question you'll have to field from friends and family, are you attracted to women? If you were married at some point and had hetero sex and kids and enjoyed it, I'd say the odds of you being completely gay are remote.

I would be very hard pressed to declare you 'deviant' also. I truly don't believe the label applies to you as long as you're chasing legal cock to fill your mouth and ass.

Of course, if you're currently unattached and don't intend to get into any romantic entanglements with men or women, the most discrete track would be to simply say you're happily playing the field if anyone asks about your status.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 17, 2022 at 12:27 PM

Agree with above, I wouldn’t worry too much about what to call yourself. Come to terms with the fact that you like to suck cock, and don’t worry so much.

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Imacoxlut

by Imacoxlut on Jan 17, 2022 at 12:30 PM

I can't tell you what you are, Undecided, but I can tell you how I see myself. I consider myself straight because I'm only romantically attracted to females, and I only consider females to be 'hot' looking. I don't ever see a man as 'hot' looking. But I think cocks are hot as fuck. I've had the pleasure of sucking a couple and got my ass fucked by one (with lots of ass to mouth). No matter what I do with a guy, I never feel gay. I just feel very open minded about sex. Are you romantically attracted to men? Are you romantically attracted to women?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 17, 2022 at 4:40 PM

It doesn't matter. I'm 68, retired, so what do I care what others think of me? I casually drop the fact I have given so-and-so a blow job, just so people will know.
I'm in a very conservative area, and find it gets laughs more than scorn. Lifelong friends have later confided to me in private that they have also sucked cocks, or want to. Needless to say, we have shared some cock sucking experiences. I think our only regrets is we hadn't come out to each other before. I find it very rewarding to swallow the cum of someone I have known for 40 or more years.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 17, 2022 at 7:15 PM

Personally it's just another type of sex. I like cock, I enjoy bringing a man to completion, but at no time do I feel anything other than the sexual urge.

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Musket

by Musket on Jan 21, 2022 at 3:47 AM

I think like many others, if you want to kiss n cuddle and have an emotional relationship with another guy - I consider that as Gay.

But, like many you just like sex with whomever you can call yourself something else - Lucky comes to mind...

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 24, 2022 at 11:01 PM

I identified immediately with your post. I like for blacks to use.my mouth and my asshole but I don't like them. I don't feel attraction to males. Just the big black penises and for them to put it in my mouth and asshole.

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