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My boyfriend doesn't want me anymore. I'm fat and have horrible skin below my waist. I have eczema and stretch marks and cellulite and I'm 142lbs and I'm only 20 and 5'1. We've been together for five years and just out of nowhere he stopped being attracted to me. He could get it up, but as soon as he was inside of me, he would thrust a few times and go soft. I know it's me, and I don't know what to do. I'm genetically a big boned person, as I have more muscle on me than fat, but I have fat overlying muscle. I'm like twice his size in weight and girth, he's all but anorexic and it's more than embarrassing that I'm bigger and stronger than he is. I'm not really manly or anything, but I am visibly more muscular than most girls. I mean, nobody knows I'm older than 16 because I look young and I think I'm too young to deal with something like this. Could this be a phase he's going through or is it really me? Five years, and just....like that it ends over sex. I'm convinced he doesn't want me. Has this ever happened to anyone? I was always a little insecure, but I didn't think it would catch up to me because I thought he loved me. We had a rough night. I honestly didn't believe it was that bad, I have bad skin and all and I think I'm disgusting, but I know it could be worse, and never ever had a problem with it before. What should I do?

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# 5702 - by Anonymous / September 15, 2008
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 15, 2008 at 6:18 PM

You sound like a yuck woman to me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 15, 2008 at 7:33 PM

Don't listen to the first poster to respond to you. The problem may be that you're too self crittical, and it's affecting your boyfriend. Don't be afraid to voice your feelings to him; if you're really in love, then you'll open up to each other about this. But if he does have a problem with your looks, well remember, there's always other fish in the sea.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 15, 2008 at 8:13 PM

Thanks for that kind note, Sir Galahad.
I'm sure you're a wonderful prize pony yourself.
God knows your shit doesn't stink!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 15, 2008 at 9:43 PM

You must be quite a catch for your...whatever you have as a significant other...dog...man....beast...whatever. Anyway, if you feel the need to drop some criticism, then apparently you are the one is yuck and insecure. You don't have the balls or cunt to make a real confession. But thanks for your input, it meant nothing anyway. But for other posters, no I wasn't insencure about it for 2 years and all of a sudden, one day, he just didn't couldn't get aroused with me anymore. It was the most ironic thing all weak.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:09 PM

Hey, 7257 was the one that made the rude remark, not me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:12 PM

I take it you were some tubby when you met him, and that was ok, but it sounds like you let your self go to the point of being a turn off.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 16, 2008 at 7:13 PM

Something like that buddy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 16, 2008 at 10:37 PM

sorry about that don't really know how to reply to a person directly.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 16, 2008 at 10:44 PM

I'm actually not fat, I only said I was to see what kind of reaction I would get. I'm thick, yes, fat, no. The problem is not me I realize. Why should I have to change? If there was something wrong with me, then shouldn't he accept it? If not, then he should leave me alone, which he doesn't want to do. I've given him a 2 month window to fix the problem. If not, then I get hit on all the time, it wouldn't be hard at all for me to find another mate. He has a great deal of flaws himself, aside from having no muscle to speak of and the fact that I have to think of other people having sex when we're having sex. He's not the greatest person or lover, but I loved him in spite of it. Now I don't anymore. It was easy, I just don't care for him anymore and all it took was four days. I only cried once and never again. I'm not hurt by him, and I can't be hurt by you, so fucking shove your comment, asshole. My skin condition is simple bruises that heal over time. I won't be this way forever and I'm on a diet for exercise and healthy eating. So while I can change, you will obviously always be an asshole. Thanks for the comment though. I'm currently looking for an older boyfriend. I'm happy and if someone doesn't want me for me, then they can take a long walk off a short cliff and you can take one with them.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 16, 2008 at 10:45 PM

Also, I'm the same weight I was when I met him 5 years ago. Exactly the same. Just more compact. So what do you say to that?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 17, 2008 at 4:48 PM

I say if you get hit on all the time, and you stay with the wimp you've got more problems than you listed here, you both sound like retards.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 18, 2008 at 1:41 PM

No, you dolt. It's called love. When you're in love it's not quite that simple. I guess you wouldn't know what that's like because no one's ever loved you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 18, 2008 at 3:54 PM

Love is overrated. Love is just a word. Love sucks.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 24, 2008 at 6:44 PM

There's a diference between love and dependancy.

Sometimes ppl grow apart but I'd say after 5 years you should know weather you really love some one long term. everything written on this thread seems very petty, focusing only on the reasons why you pysicaly dislike each other.

If he cant get it up then its possible there are medical reasons or perhaps psycological isues, you say you love him but if you did you'd wouldn't be so quick to put the blame on him and imply that his impotence is some kind of slur against your appearance, you'd genuinely want to find the cause but you really dont seem to give a fuck.

Sounds like your a very bitter person and for that reason your probably better off apart.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 29, 2008 at 10:01 PM

Thanks for that. It does turn out that it's not me, but him. The only reason I originally thought that it was me was because he could get it up, but once he was inside, he went down. Then there was the time when I said that if he could stay hard for two minutes, I'd give him another chance. He did, and I gave him a chance. It was dark. I turned on the television an he instantly went soft. It was like a horrible coincidence that was too real to ignore. So yes, I did jump to conclusions. I don't know what's wrong, but I gave him 2 months before we tried to have sex again. If nothing happens, then we will do one of two things: see a doctor, or just try new people for a while to get to the root of the problem, especially if it's psychological. I wouldn't mind, but who knows how that will go. Anyway, you can't judge someone you don't know, so don't do that to me again. Thank you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 30, 2008 at 5:26 PM

big ole flabby lard ass, no wonder he quit when you turned the tv on, the site of that would make a mule sick.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 2, 2008 at 9:49 PM

I'm a bit of a liar, I'll admit, but your input actually does nothing to affect me. My skin is fine, I'm not fat, but the thing about my bf is true. He has an Erectile Dysfunction. I don't really understand what that means for us, as I want kids, but you'd be surprise how much this 'lardass' gets hit on and how many guys like me. Don't mean to brag, but you are wrong. Then again, that's not surprising, as I'm sure you only looked at this post to make yourself feel better by making others feel worse. Sorry it didn't work on me. This was a fun experiment, thanks for all the input. Oh, and you might want to get laid before you come talking about who doesn't want who and why. You must have been turned down quite a few times. Poor baby.

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