My Friend Keeps Embarrassing Me

My friend is turning into a bully and I don't know what to do to stop her. I tried calling her out on it, but she told me I was "being too sensitive" and "making a big deal out of it."

She's been teasing me about my body since I can remember, and lately she started lifting my shirt every time our friends are around.

The first time she did it was in class. We were with four other girls, chatting, She lifted my sweater in the middle of the conversation. The other students weren't around, luckily, but I didn't know those girls very well, so it was particularly embarrassing.

I feel like she's doing it on purpose to humiliate me and make me look weak in front of others.

She always gets away with it because my friends think it's funny that I get treated like that. They laugh every time and tease me about it for days, which is frustrating because I'll always be known as the girl who gets her shirt lifted for their own entertainment.

The second time was in the middle of gym class. I was leaning down to tie my shoes and she came up from behind and lifted my t-shirt. She did it so aggressively that I almost tripped.. At that moment, I was bursting with anger but held myself back. I didn't speak a word to her for the rest of the day.

Last night, we were sitting on the couch with two other friends. I was lying upside down, with my legs over the backrest. She suddenly pushed me to fall on my back. This time, my shirt only rose above my stomach so I immediately pulled it down to cover myself. My friends started laughing, as always, while I was trying so hard to contain my anger and embarrassment, and not burst into tears.

I've had enough and I can't take this anymore. I want to get back at her for everything she put me through. I want to humiliate her and have our friends point at her and laugh. What should I do?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2022 at 2:15 PM

Walk away from her, refuse to be around her, and if she tries to engage you, just stick to saying "get away from me". That'll get the point across and you don't have to get your soul slimy with revenge, or risk getting in trouble.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2022 at 2:58 PM

Do you have a chubby belly? I find it so sexy when girls get their fat bellies exposed.

If yes, that's probably why your friends were laughing at you. Because they knew how embarrassed you were.

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koaoyzh

by koaoyzh on May 5, 2022 at 5:22 PM

Were you ever braless when she did it to you? Did she ever do it in front of guys?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2022 at 6:20 PM

WTF is wrong with you. Stand up for yourself… no one else will

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 5, 2022 at 6:38 PM

Agree with response number 1. You dont have to put up with her shit but you dont have to get back at her because it will make you look just as childish. Friends dont do that shit to friends and they dont try to embarrass each other. She is jealous of you and trying to make you look bad to the other girls. Bottom line, ignore her and find new friends. If she cuts the shit and apologizes maybe someday you can be friends again. If not, move on with your life.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 6, 2022 at 12:16 AM

She may be trying to assert dominance or she has feelings for you that are confusing her. Talk to her about it and let her know to stop it. If she keeps it up, cut that bitch out of your life

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 6, 2022 at 7:38 AM

The next time she does it, grab her by the tits and squeeze as hard as you can. "Tit for Tat" so to speak!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 6, 2022 at 9:34 AM

Did she ever share an embarrassing story with you? Whenever your friends are around, tell it! You'll show her that two can play this game.

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