I Am Caught

A few years ago right before the pandemic i very very briefly independently escorted.
I was in a bad relationship and I had to move out but I did not have the money for rent and a security deposit on my own. So I puts some quick ads up and for a very brief time did some outcalls on the weekends for a few months.

The thing is I only used one site, and only a few times. I made a site p*ssword and I delete all the ads when i was done. The sites user agreement said ads where not archived so I only ran them when I was active and always deleted them when I was done. I seriously only did this a few months and mostly on weekends and ran ads very briefly.

A couple weeks ago a co-worker started inappropriately texting me and propositioning me. When I gave a hard no, he offered me money. I got really pissed off at him and told him i was going to HR but then he texted me pictures from my old ads! I was like WTF! He told me he stumbled on them on an escort review site. It was not the site i posted my ads not but a different site that reviewed and rated escorts. With his help I googled the right stuff and i am screwed... fuck my nudes are out there and even the wording in my ad which makes it very clear what i was doing. It looks like guys reviewed my sex with them and posted the pictures and the ad as reference. It's bad... fuck... they show my pictures and it is clearly me and a few of the posts go into serious details about sex acts i performed and for how much, and even how willing or good i was at it. It's completely explicit and humiliating.

The good news is they are not tied to my real name but only the fake escort name I used. And the phone number i used was a burner phone and is inactive now. Anyone googling my name or number would never find me however, you could, like my co-worker, stumble on them looking at reviews of escorts in my area. I have tried to get them taken down but most sites don't even respond when you contact them and a lawyer I contacted said it would cost thousands to try and clean up and you never could be sure you got it all.

I know it is my fault. I only did it because i was in a really bad spot and needed out of a bad relationship. It was less then a few months and i likely only slept with a couple dozen or so (maybe a bit more) older married men, professional types. I screened them and was super picky who i met with. I am a looker, and i priced high to filter out the scummy guys and i had enough offers that i was never st*pid about it. I was with only older upper-class, married guys in there 40s and 50's looking for a young fit hot girl for an easy cheat, so i never expect this kinds of men to "review me" my whole ad was around being mutually discreet. My ad headline was fucking, "She Never Needs to Know. I Won't Tell If You Don't Tell" I guess that only goes one way. Fuck. I had hoped going high end would have protected me some.

I did end up sleeping with my co-worker, in part to shut him up, and in part because he got one site to take it down since he was a member. Ugh. I am likely ok for now as long as no one stumbles on it again.