Straight Male / 46
Re: Feeling Guilty - Work Sex For Gain
Camile's 58503 post reminded me of a long time friend I have who is also in Sales, probably in the same industry. She is ex cheerleader, homecoming court, etc with the huge enhanced boobs that you can't ignore. And she loves showing them off, I've never seen her in an outfit that isn't skin tight or showing a massive amount of cleavage, she loves the attention.
She isn't the sharpest tool in the shed but has advanced faster than normal in Sales through her company. Knowing her, I know she has used showing off her body to increase her sales, if not actually sexing her clients.
I am curious how many of you out there have used your bodies to get ahead in the workplace?
Whether using sex to get what you want in the workplace is good or not, if you really think about it, people use sex to get what we want all the time. Wives use it to leverage their husbands into doing what they want. Women wear revealing clothing and know they will get better treatment out in public, dont deny it, we do.
As for Camile and her hubby, I would just casually mention something like "I had to visit with (CEO) today, geez he is such a scumbag" which he should reply what happened and you can tell hubby he was staring at my boobs and grabbed one. If he wants to know more, he'll let you know. If it pisses him off, then yeah you probably shouldn't tell him.
Some husbands might get turned on by what you did. But doing sex for sales is a slippery slope. Like others said, will he expect it from now on? Did he sign a long term deal? Can he be trusted not to tell anyone else or use it to blackmail you into more sex?
It's human nature to want to feel desired and sexy, and it's a rush to be able to control men however you want with your sexuality. I can understand why you did it.
It seems that showing the goods is one thing, but any sexual acts seems over the line in my opinion. Especially since it was clear you weren't aroused by the guy. Good luck, let us know how it goes with future sales and hubby.
She isn't the sharpest tool in the shed but has advanced faster than normal in Sales through her company. Knowing her, I know she has used showing off her body to increase her sales, if not actually sexing her clients.
I am curious how many of you out there have used your bodies to get ahead in the workplace?
Whether using sex to get what you want in the workplace is good or not, if you really think about it, people use sex to get what we want all the time. Wives use it to leverage their husbands into doing what they want. Women wear revealing clothing and know they will get better treatment out in public, dont deny it, we do.
As for Camile and her hubby, I would just casually mention something like "I had to visit with (CEO) today, geez he is such a scumbag" which he should reply what happened and you can tell hubby he was staring at my boobs and grabbed one. If he wants to know more, he'll let you know. If it pisses him off, then yeah you probably shouldn't tell him.
Some husbands might get turned on by what you did. But doing sex for sales is a slippery slope. Like others said, will he expect it from now on? Did he sign a long term deal? Can he be trusted not to tell anyone else or use it to blackmail you into more sex?
It's human nature to want to feel desired and sexy, and it's a rush to be able to control men however you want with your sexuality. I can understand why you did it.
It seems that showing the goods is one thing, but any sexual acts seems over the line in my opinion. Especially since it was clear you weren't aroused by the guy. Good luck, let us know how it goes with future sales and hubby.
