It seems like the more I give her (single home in suburbs, coach purses, spending$$$) the less I get back. I shouldn't have to beg let alone ask. She should want to suck my dick. She used to......then we went and had kids. Don't have kids.
If all she ever did was suck your dick, how did you end up having kids?
LOL. Best answer!
Sorry to hear dude. Might want to both go to a councilor about this.
Not sure if this is the norm.
My wife gave birth a few weeks ago and we're (once again) fucking like bunnies. She's tight again and wants to be fucked hard just like she use to. Maybe something wrong with her feelings about sex.
My wife still gives me everything she always gave me in bed, despite giving birth to our little girl.
That's strange, she still sucks my dick and swallows and it's always her idea. Maybe it's something you said???
Sorry to hear that.
I was married for 19 years, and I HATED sucking his dick.
Now divorced, and I can't get enough! LOL
I thinks part of it is getting used to the same old, same old. Romance her. Take her to a fancy hotel. Make her feel like she is the only one you want. Its about more than expensive things -- its about feeling wanted.
I am female, btw.
You can blame the kids all you want dude but fact is, she's boinking another. Hire a PI with a good cam and get ready for the single life.
Yeah I dated a guy for two years and at first you feel sexy when you do it, and it is fun, but as soon as it's expected, it feels so demeaning.
Try not asking. Try romancing her. Show her you care for her emotionally and she will come back to you sexually.
This is such a common result. Humans aren't meant to stay together forever. Once it gets old you should bounce. Too bad that once you do, you have to pay because you have kids. I love my kids and have them 50/50 but I can't help but hate my ex every month when I have to pay $1k. As it went downhill after the kids and we weren't going out all the time having fun she turned off like a light switch. It was even worse once she figured out that she could an annuity to leave. Now I pay for apartment and can so she can have fun and fuck other people. Say it's not true all you want, that I'm generalizing, but I literally know dozens of guys that this has happened too. Kids are tough but they're amazing, they just typically happen to kill a sex life until they're old enough to take care of themselves. most people can't usually wait it out and give up. This day and age of technology, glorified sexuality, and pay to leave legal system has murdered monogamy. Oh well...