Husbands Sex Drive

My husband is older then me. He’s 40. We’ve been married for 3 years now. He works in the medical field and I officially became a stay at home mom 2 years ago when our daughter was born.

Being a stay at home mom I masturbate a lot. Weather it’s with a dildo or my vibrator. I also wear butt plugs occasionally as they are a huge turn on for me.

My husband is in great shape. He’s dick is more then big enough for me but his sex drive really hasn’t been there for the last year. Years past he constantly wanted sex. We dated for 2 years before getting married.

In my husbands defense he did lose a testicle a year ago. That definitely is something a man never wants to happen but I’ve assured him I think no less of him. We’ve had sex plenty of times since then and his erections are just as strong and his loads are just as big. He knows I’d give him a bj anytime if he asks too. Which yesterday morning before work I gave him a bj and he loved it. I always swallow his load.

But when it comes to sex I sometimes have to beg to get fucked. I think the combination of losing his testicle and work being stressful over the last year has made his sex drive kinda disappear.

I love seeing my husband strip out of his suit when he gets home. Seeing his nice big bulge in his Calvin Klein tighty whities. It really turns me on. I miss the days when he’d toss me on the bed and pull my thong to the side and fuck me with his dick out the fly of his briefs after work. Spontaneous sexy like that was the best.

Any ideas how to spice things up once again? Last night I did wear a sundress with no panties when we went out and that lead to some great sex so that seemed to work on spicing things up a bit.

I’ve planned a vacation for us in two weeks and my husband is well aware of it. It will just be the two of us going. Our daughter will be with his parents for a week. I got an appointment to get waxed too so he’ll have a nice smooth pussy to play with the whole time on vacation. Hopefully he can destress and get his sex drive back. He is well aware that I’m wanting to start trying for another kid too

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by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2023 at 11:33 AM

Try talking to him about the noticed difference between your sex drive and his own.

If you can help manage the family finances based on his earnings alone better there will be less stress off his mind and much appreciation of you, his wife, which for men easily turns to desire.

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