Sex with my boyfriend is amazing, he does everything I have even hinted at wanting and is always asking me what he can do to make me more satisfied. My only problem is that he has a very hard time reaching his own climax and always has to finish himself off. He says that it isn't me and that he has never gotten off except on his own but it really bothers me. He knows that it bothers me and has tried everything he can to make it not bother me, including faking almost getting off during sex and stopping because he didn't want to get off yet. It doesnt bother him that I cant get him off. Because of how much it bothers me I have ended up cheating on him a few times just to make sure that I "still have it" and I always regret it but eventually I end up doing it again. Should I leave him for someone else so that I can feel good about my skills in bed? Or should I stay with him and keep trying to not betray him?
