Americans See Sex Differently Than Europeans

Back then I was a music major in Stockholm. An American businessman came to the shop where I was serving. He was nice and we talked because it was slow. When I finished my shift I went with him to his hotel. We had sex, it was good enough, different with an older man. He became infatuated with me and would not leave me alone. He invited me to the States for a visit. It was my only chance so I accepted. We went here and there, he tried to show me the States you don't see on television.

He asked me to marry him. I was 20 and he was 48. He never understood that sex is a friendly thing, it doesn't mean we are in love. He took me to a courthouse and in spite of my warnings I married him. He wanted it so bad. Now I am 30, I live in the States and have a 7 year old son. I work part time at a small business around my son's school hours. I feel more and more that I'm married to my son's grandfather. And sex is not so good.

In my country an older man would understand a young wife with a boyfriend. American husbands do not understand.