About 2 weeks ago i slept with my boyfriends (bryant) best friend (Scott).They have been friends since there were 5 years old! I have known Scott for about 4 years and ever since we meet there was been sexual tension between us. So we finally acted on it and now i think im falling in love it him, all i do is think about him! But he wont talked to me about it, i have tried everything to get him to talk but he wont. I have no idea how he feels about it! Would you guys put a friendship like that on the line for one night of fun?? I need to know what you think please i have no one else i can ask. PLEASE HELP! thanks.

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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2004 at 3:13 AM

No offense, but he probably thinks you are a slut and will tell your bf. Women might forgive their bf for cheating with a friend (ironically, they will ditch the friend), but it works the other way around with men.

Chalk it up to experience and find a new guy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2004 at 10:52 AM

You where just a one night stand, and that's all you'll ever be to him. Get over it.

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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2004 at 11:21 AM

My Boyfriend does know and he was just really hurt by it but now we are back to normal. Its not that i would lose my bf to this its that i want to be with his friend.

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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2004 at 8:16 PM

You really did it now. You have turned into a dirty little slut,just because you are cock-crazy. They should both dump you and you could get on with your life as a street-walker until such time as you are to old for that profession ( about 30) then you could take up waiting in line for government cheese with about 4 skinny,snot-nosed kids hanging on you and whining. You go girl!!!!

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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2004 at 9:09 PM

If you have such strong feelings for this guy you had a one night stand with then you shouldn't be living with your boyfriend. Do the honorable thing and move out, not live with him just because he's second best and you can't have his friend.

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by Anonymous on Feb 15, 2004 at 6:55 AM

Well you aren't a slut, but your bf and his friend probably thinks you are. Make a clean break. Move out and go somewhere where you won't have to deal with the gossip.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 15, 2004 at 8:58 AM

How do you figure she's not a slut? She's the definition of whore. Keep your legs closed, harlot.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 15, 2004 at 11:16 AM

Why the hell are girls called a slut just because they cheated on their boyfriend?? If a guy did that they would be a "player" or looked up to by like every guy.. I think that is so unfair

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by Anonymous on Feb 15, 2004 at 11:56 AM

IM NOT A SLUT! I have only been with 4 guys in my life and i dont just sleep with anyone! Why are you guys so mean to me? All i did was ask for some help.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 29, 2005 at 7:59 PM

my bf screwed my best friend so i screwed his brother and best friend.revenge is the shit!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 20, 2011 at 7:40 AM

Please honey, don't melt down. You're not a slut, I can tell. These things happen. Don't listen to mean people who aren't bright enough the see things from a few angles. Their condemming words say more about them than you! I understand your situation is tough. But DON'T be too hard on yourself. And do NOT even read these mean comments from people who have no interest in aiding the situation. Take this as a lesson in the importance of monogomy. That's OK Honey, you just didn't know! Now you do. It's also important for you to forgive these people for their mean comments. They just don't understand how much these comments migh hurt you. If they did, I'm sure they wouldn't say them.

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