The first time you have sex your Hymen will break (Pop the cherry) causing some pain. Now it is gone and will never bother you again.
This is the difference between a virgin girl and a woman.
The difference between a girl and a woman is that a girl isnt sexually mature, like with her period and stuff. So is a male person considered just a boy until he has sex?
Actually I would consider him a boy up until the day when he is out on his own and paying his own way.
hello?? could someone actually answer my question please?
It all depends. I think that under normal circumstances, a girl whose hymen has not been broken in other ways will have some pain and bleeding the first time she has intercourse. Pain can continue after the first time, but should lessen as time goes on. If you are nervous, and your body stiffens when you have sex, your muscles will not relax enough and it could hurt for quite some time. Best thing to do, if you're truly ready, is just have sex some more. Relax when you do it. Make sure he is moving at your pace. If it hurts, try it again and see if the pain lessens. If it does not, you may have some treatable condition, and you should consult your doctor.
MD here. Sometimes, there are hymnal remnants that will try to heal (reform the barrier), causing pain at subsequent intercourse. The other problem is one of lubrication. Most teenagers don't engage in much foreplay or the girl doesn't enjoy sex/feels guilty or afraid, and therefore, she doesn't have enough lubrication to avoid pain. While over the counter lubes like Astroglide will take care of this problem, they can seal in bacteria, which will lead to infections from bacterial vaginosis to yeast infections. The best advice is rely on natural lubrication --and if your body isn't providing enough, listen to it (i.e. it doen't particularly care for what you are doing).
i was wet ok.i know that im ready for sex, and i know i was ready. we have had sex since then and i have had no or very little pain. thank you for answering!!
what have u been living under a rock all of ur life!!! c'mon i think every1 knows that the 1st time u have sex it is gonna hurt!!! ur idiot!!!!
You're the idiot here. One, you can't spell. Two, she DID know that. Her question was not if it hurts the first time, but if it hurts AGAIN.
