Well me and my boyfriend broke up while he was on a buisness trip I had the feeling something was wrong with me and It turned out I am pregnant. I told him ass soon as he came back since he didnt want to listen to me while out of state. He began dating this woman as soon as he came back but never let her know what is happening between us. He wants me to get an abortion I do not want one. He claims to not love me anymore, but then when I tried to talk to him about everything he began crying saying he didnt mean to do any of this to me. I finally convinced him to tell her, she says she is willing to put up with it. To me it seems like she doesnt want us to fix our realationship, no matter what. If I keep the baby you think he will eventually love me again and leave her? And if I abort, what will I do?

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by Anonymous on Dec 21, 2007 at 5:44 PM

It's your desicion, but what ever you choose make sure its the choice you want, and in the future, when that hole gets hot, put some duct tape over it.

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by Anonymous on Dec 23, 2007 at 12:26 PM

Having a baby to save a relationship will only make things more complicated for the both of you. At the same time, personally I do not believe people should have abortions. There are so many people who are looking for children to love. The sad thing about adoption in the world we live in right now is that the average adoption is about $40,000.00 this basically goes to lawyers. If you have this baby, good for you. Raise it with or without him and be proud of yourself for doing so.You don't need to be in a "relationship" to raise this child together, but it is best that you atleast remain friendly for the childs sake. It won't be easy, but abortion is the selfish way out.

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by Anonymous on Jan 3, 2008 at 4:59 AM

This planet already has TOO MANY PEOPLE on it and because of that it's getting hotter and hotter. Do that kid a favor; don't walk; RUN to the nearest clinic and abort. By the way, it's a proven fact that couples that actually have babies just to bring them closer to each other make a huge mistake. Kids can put a major strain on even a good relationship. Having that baby will not only NOT bring the father back, it will ruin many of your chances to reel in a new guy.

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by Anonymous on Jan 28, 2008 at 9:03 AM

Dont have the baby to bring the man back...but also dont let him control your mind on the abortion. The child is yours and yours alone and only you can decide if you want to keep it or not. Sadly, having it will not bring him back to you...but if you want to have it and raise it as your own then go ahead and empower yourself with it. You can put it up for adoption, and you can also abort...its all up to you.

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