ok my dilemma is that me and my bf used to have sex all the time, good sex. I dunno whats changed now but like its just so hard to have sex with him. Its not like i dont want to and i know he wants to its just that none of us go through with it. I love him and daydream about fucking him all the time, but like then when i see him i just lose my nerve. It never used to be like this. If i wanted sex i would attack him and we'd have sex so many times, and same for him. i guess its cos he just doesn't try hard enough to make me feel sexy, i dunno. Maybe its my fault. But like i mean i wanna suck him off, but i dont see why i should when he doesn like going down on me. Maybe he does and he is just nervous cos he doesnt know how. Anyway like i know i have 2 talk to him and figure it out, but i just dont know how to bring it up or what to say. It's becoming a real problem becos sex is a crucial part of a healthy relationship. Maybe we're just bored and need to spice things up... damn i am so pissed about this. We'v gone from nymphos to prudes like what the fuck!!! xx JT

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 at 12:33 AM

Well I can understand why he wouldn't want to go down on you, hells fire girl, those hairy holes you females got, STINK.

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by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 at 3:15 AM

Your obviously very young and nieve. If sex used to be there and now its not its real simple. He's screwing someone else and not being honest with you. Time to move on.

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by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 at 3:17 AM

First you indicated sex used to be great and near the end you said he didn't know how. Tell us; just how old are you? I'm guessing about 14.

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by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 at 4:49 AM

No, she's 18 and already thought she knew all about it, if she was 14 she could be taught how to respond and then by the time she reached 18 she would be begging for anything hard.

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by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 at 3:30 PM

these replys are really interesting... first of all i dont stink lol, not all females do its just depending on your diet. If you smoke alot and eat junk you will have a smelly hole, but eat lots of fruit and veg and drink water and trust me its smells alot better than any dick. Second of all he's not cheating on me he spends all his time with me when he isn't working so i dont see how he would have the time. Thirdly we did have good sex, just because a guy doesn't go down on you doesn't mean he cant bring you to a shuddering orgasm with regular sex. Cunnilingus is a fairly new practice and ppl back in the day never used ti do it, and i am pretty sure most of them enjoyed their sex life... and lastly the main reason i think that we dont have as much sex anymore is becos although we love eachother we have forgotten how to communicate outside the bedroom. And when you aren't communicating in one area of the relationship the other areas suffer, all will be resolved when i figure out a way to broach the subject gently. Thanks to all you losers who ever so typically had make a juvenile comment about age and stinky holes when all i did was unload the thoughts in my head, sounds like you are the only 14yr olds on this site. Hope all you kiddies learnt something today. xx JT

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by Anonymous on Jul 12, 2006 at 4:52 AM

I learned something, I learned that you're just another damm female that can't stand answers to the questions that she askes.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 12, 2006 at 10:06 PM

Listen lady, this is a confession site, not a lonely hearts advice newspaper column.
If you don't want to get mocked, don't ask for advice.
Instead, entertain us with your pecadillos.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2006 at 1:19 AM

Tell us how big your tits are, and like if you take your bra off, will they fall past your knees? you know, stuff like that.

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by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2006 at 4:59 PM

I wasn't asking for advice you moron!!! And i confessed what was bothering me becos yes it is a confession site. ppl dont cofess to be mocked they confess to see if other ppl are going through something similar. So unless all you assholles have some thing useful and intelligent who cares what you think anyway. lol. this is rediculous, friggen hillbillys!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 15, 2006 at 1:01 AM

Hillbillys are real, and I guess you're real also, but a real cunt.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 15, 2006 at 4:40 PM

U bet i am but only when i'm dealing with the likes of you guys, normally i am nice!! And i never said hillbillys weren't real... go back 2 2nd grade and learn to understand what you read!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 16, 2006 at 1:12 AM

Why use the term hillbillys in the first place, and I still say the term cunt fits.

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by Anonymous on Jul 16, 2006 at 3:57 PM

The term hillbillys meant in the context that the replys to what i wrote were small minded and really lame!! like i said cunt does apply , but only when i'm dealing with... let's see - Hillbillys.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 17, 2006 at 12:52 AM

Why do you keep insulting hillbillys.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 17, 2006 at 4:21 PM

Why? Are you one?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 18, 2006 at 5:12 PM

No, I'm a asshole redneck, but my cousin is a hillbilly and we stand up for each other, perhaps you would fare better if you had a sex change.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 21, 2006 at 3:42 PM

i do just fine now, thanks, being a woman i get whatever i want whenever i want lol, perhaps you should consider a sex change...

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by Anonymous on Jul 22, 2006 at 4:19 AM

I'm in the prosess of having one now, its from a female to male.

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by Anonymous on Jul 22, 2006 at 3:51 PM

u must have been dropped on your head as a kid who wouldnt wanna be a woman?? geez... u will regret it, but i think u are really a man that wants to be a woman and is tryin to convince himself that men are better because the hillbilly that he is, he cant a afford an operation... awww!!

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by Anonymous on Aug 15, 2006 at 9:41 PM

Okay, not trying to start an argument or anything but, this is pathetic. You're both acting like your seven. I'm just waiting for one of you to say, "I know you are but what am I." Man. Grow up.

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