Shocking Discovery

During spring break, my two kids went with a family from our church for a week at their cottage on the lake. The two families have been friends for many years and we socialize a lot and are very close. The other family has two teenage kids as well (F14, M17) and they're always hanging out together and are active in our youth ministry at church.

After they came home from their trip, my son was frantic because he couldn't find his phone. While the kids were at school, I found Tommy's phone wedged down in the back seat of our car. I don't know why, But I powered up his phone and looked at his "spring break" album.

I'm just sick and shocked at what I found. There were pictures of the two girls, 14 yr. old Cindy and my 15 yr. old Brandi topless sitting on a little wooded beach. Even worse there were pictures of the girls and boys nude. My daughter was standing in the knee deep water, laughing while holding both boys erect penis in her hand. The neighbor girl Cindy was lying on a blanket, legs spread while my son was playing with her girl parts. Etc.

All together there must have been a dozen pictures of these horny kids, The boys were fully erect and I couldn't believe how big their penises were. The fact that they were just so darn casual about the whole thing is troubling.

Where the heck were their parents during all this and what else has been going on between our teenage kids ? I shared some of the pictures to my phone while I was at it in case I decide to tell the other kid's parents. I can't help but look at the boys pics, I am almost ashamed to admit.

Should I tell the other parents or maybe go to my Pastor for advice ? What would you do as a Mom ???

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2023 at 6:43 AM

I would not go to your pastor for advice. There are WAY too many perverts in church leadership (I know from experience being deeply involved in churches for over 40 years). Too many pastors will take it as an opportunity to privately question these youth and then exploit that knowledge for their own personal gratification.

While it might be worthwhile to share with the other parents, just know that teens will ALWAYS find a way to be naughty. We all were horny bast*rds as teens. Where there's a will, there's a way.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2023 at 8:28 AM

Educate your children about sex. Act as if you don’t know about it, but definitely bring up sex while talking with them, not in a serious way, but in a “I was young once and I know how it feels to have these urges and feelings.” Help them to understand it and above all assure them that you’re there to listen and guide them and they should feel free to come to you and express what’s going on their hearts and lives. You’re not going to judge them, but rather help them understand why they feel the way they do and what they can and cannot do about it.

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Capnron648

by Capnron648 on Apr 11, 2023 at 9:54 AM

Well it would seem that it's a little late for the " Birds and Bees" talk at this point. Kids these days are much more sexually active, especially when fueled by various social media outlets. First thing I'd do is get my young daughter on birth control. As far as the pictures of those young erect boys, it would be hard not to view those guys in a different light now...LOL.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2023 at 1:46 PM

"Casual" means they've done it before and confronting them, with or without the aid of the other parents will only make playing around with each other forbidden fruit and drive the behavior even further underground.

You mentioned your daughter holding their hard-ons and her friend spread wide for your son to experiment with. Did any of the play go beyond that? Were there photos of the kids engaging in oral sex? Full on fucking?

If either of those is the case, you'll have to take the plunge and discuss it with your daughter as an explanation as to why she suddenly needs to be on birth control. If there wasn't, you need to have the detailed birds and bees talk with her without letting on about what you know from your son's phone.

Circling back to your issue for a moment, about how big are the boys? Comparable to your husband? Noticeably bigger? Do they tempt you to service them when you stare at their cocks in your daughter's hands? While extremely dicey with the neighbor kid, it might be your opening for a frank discussion with your son about his sexuality and maybe some hands on demonstration about what feels good to men and women and the dangers of full on sex with the neighbor girl. If you keep him drained, maybe he won't cast his seed next door...

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RichardStands

by RichardStands on Apr 11, 2023 at 5:46 PM

First of all, because all these kids are minors by law, you should think first about protecting them from a crusading parent or pastor that might think getting the law involved is somehow a good idea.

Second, you should talk to both your kids about the entire escapade. From your description of the pics, this isn't the first time they've done this. Go over the pics with them in a way that is positive and healthy, that doesn't involve guilt or condemnation. Talk to them like adults, because apparently they are already, whether you're ready for them to be or not.

Third, from your reaction to the pics, you got turned on. You pretty much said so in so many words. Your daughter obviously enjoyed having a cock in each hand. Have you ever experienced that yourself? Every girl should actually. It gives the hold-ee a unique and special sense of power in the situation that is good and healthy for every girl to experience.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2023 at 7:25 AM

I agree with the above commenters. You need to have a frank discussion with your kid's. I didn't see a husband or adult male figure mentioned. If one is available; loop them in and divide and conquer. It's plain that your kids have become adults and they should be spoken to that way. Be honest and supportive and keep them safe!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2023 at 5:40 AM

My Daddy and I both agree about putting your daughter on birth control right away, then preach responsibility. He put me on birth control when I was 15 before anything accidently happened to me. Mindy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2023 at 9:42 AM

Do not invole anyone else outside of possibly your husband and get your daughter on BC and her friend also if she is not. Implants are great and last years.

Talk to them and stow preaching or telling them what they can or can not do. Outside of locking them in a cell it will change nothing better to maintain and grow your relationship by communicating calmly

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