My husband whines and complains more then a woman. So I almost always have my iPod on, earphones. I've told him I can't stand listening to that shit. He just complains more. I tried something, I shut the music down for awhile, he kept looking over at me (I use the compter or read a book and peak over it), he wasn't complaining or whining when he thought I couldn't hear him.

Please no comments about paying attention to him and he'll stop. I told him why I walk around with head phones all the time. He admittedly doesn't care he just waits until I take them off to complain. Told him I'm leaving if he is going to complain his life away. He stopped for a day. Our vacation is coming up I told him if he starts to complain I'll be on the next flight home and he won't know until I get home. Wonder if that will set him straight.