If He Has A Girlfriend, She Is My Girlfriend Too. That's My Rule.

My husband became infatuated with one his underlings, a young woman who was overwhelmed by his attention. The situation went out of hand when she traveled with us to the wedding of another underling. At the hotel they lost our reservations and we had to go to another hotel. The prices were double what we had planned to spend and in typical girl fashion I convinced her to share a two queen size beds room.

We went to the ceremony and the reception. She stayed with us all evening, and my husband treated her like his own. It got bad enough that I had to ask her if she wanted me to pull him off of her. I should have listened to my gut, she liked his attention. Back at the hotel we took turns using the bathroom to get ready for bed. We turned the lights off, her back was to us. I made sure I got on the side of the bed that put me between them.

When we woke up the next morning, she was in bed with me and he was naked in her bed. I slept through his visiting her that night, taking her under my nose. Breakfast was quiet, no one said anything. When he got up to hit the buffet one more time I followed her eyes as she followed him around the room. I crossed my legs, leaned over, took her hand in mine and asked her 'are you his woman now?', because she sure acted like it.

I warned him, told him point blank, if he insisted on having sex with her she never going away, there was no such thing as a one night stand with her. He did not listen. By the time he 'got it', she was way beyond being able say it was an office thing.

We rented a room with a king size bed at the beach over Labor Day. I invited her to come, he wasn't going to leave her behind. And she wasn't staying behind. The surprise was one king size bed. I told him in front of her that I was tired of being left out. We were going to 'make love' together, the three of us. I want my fair share I told him, I told her we are in this together. He behaved, had sex with both of us, slipped up and told her he loved her while making love with her. Halfway through his spousal duty, I asked him to tell me he loved me too. I'm your wife I reminded him, before he squeaked out an 'I love you too'.

The long weekend went fine, she and I changed for bed together, use the double sink to brush our teeth. I held her hand when we walked, sat beside her in the booth. He broke the rules with her, I refused to be stoic while he had a secret love affair. She is my girlfriend too.