I Ain't Dead Yet

Ive had a bf for 3 and a half years. He has ED. His Libido is low. He says that he wants to try and take the right stuff so we can be intimate but it's always a chore for him when it comes down to it. He's awesome in bed too that's what kills me. I will not live without dick for the rest of my life.
He claims he tries when he does take the stuff but I believe he doesn't try at all. At either rate, what he doesn't know won't kill him. I've been meeting up with this guy I grew up with. I've always thought he was sexy. I've always wanted to sleep with him. Apparently he has felt the same. So yes I been cheating on him. I warned the mf in the beginning of this that if things didn't change I was gonna be cheating. I'm stuck rn where I'm at. If you ain't gonna give me any dick then I'll figure it out myself.

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D1g1talG0ds

by D1g1talG0ds on Jun 28, 2023 at 3:40 AM

Expand on your encounters with getting dick. Tell us your first time going after it and how it made you feel.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 28, 2023 at 6:36 PM

So I got ED. It sucks. The blue pill gives you a hangover. I take it but I expect to be laid. Wife wants to make love. Eyeroll. Any way lost my boner. Haven’t used it since.

She’s had a hall pass for 10 years and frustratingly she’s not used it in three years. So another boner killer.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 28, 2023 at 8:50 PM

Have you tried talking to your bf about what is causing this? A few years back I had ED. I had a really hot girlfriend and she kept pressuring me to have sex (I was a virgin at the time and really wanted to take things slow). We eventually did it a few times while I was on the pill. She said it was great and didn't believe I was a virgin and ended up cheating. Eventually I figured out that stress and not enough sleep was causing low testosterone. I also had to quit watching porn. And I needed to find an understanding woman who took things at my pace and helped me get comfortable.

Once those things changed my ED went away completely. I've been able to have sex with quite a few women since and never had that issue again. Part of me wonders how things would have turned out if my old gf would have been more patient and understanding. Even a few years after that breakup one of her friends told me she basically only dates guys who remind her of me. But I could never go back to someone who cheated.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 29, 2023 at 8:36 PM

Have you talked to your boyfriend about what could be causing the ED? A few years ago I had that problem. I was a virgin and started dating a very hot girl who had been with a lot of guys. She tried pushing me along before I was ready and the thought of not being able to perform up to her expectations stopped me from getting hard enough. I also learned later that some men get ED from jacking off to porn, and I was doing that daily for years.

Eventually I used the pill to have sex with her. She told me it was some of the best she had. After a couple of times she accused me of not being a virgin and I started having trouble again. She cheated and we broke up.

My next gf was very understanding. We took things slow and I had quit porn. I had no trouble having sex with her and I've been with a dozen women since without a problem. Meanwhile my ex's friends have told me she regrets what she did and only dates guys that remind her of me. I've wished she didn't do what she did, but I can't go back to someone who cheated.

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