I Dont Look At It As Cheating

I have been married 26 years to my husband. I am not a cheater but I have had sex with 3 different guys one time each. I plan to never do it again. My husband is a good man and pleases me in all areas in my life. I won’t be a cheater and mess our lives up. The three experiences didn’t affect my love for my husband.
The first happened 3 months before we married. I went on vacation with my parents. I talked my parents into going out on a date dinner and I would stay in the condo. It was night and I went to soak in the hot tube. The hot tube was crowded and I set by guy probably ten years older. I visited with the group and drank wine coolers they shared with me. The guy put his hand on my legs. He rubbed up and down my leg more and more and I didn’t stop him. He finally started rubbing my private so I stopped him. He whispered for me to go with him to his condo. Why I went I don’t understand yet. He said his family would be there tomorrow and wanted so play tonight. He was a married well built man who knew how to please a woman. He went down on me and after two big orgasms I thought he would let me leave. He undresses and gets on top of me. He did me a short time and wanted me to get on top. Understand I wasn’t sexually experienced at this time but he gave me good experience. My parents called my cell and I told them I was at hot tube and would be back shortly. He put hickies on my breast while I was talking to mom. He finished inside me while I was on top. We rested then he got on top and did me until I was sore. He finally finished inside me again. He then told me I needed to leave so he could clean condo up. I had to hide hickies for two days and to my relief got my period two days later.
The second fling was after marriage 8 years and having had our two children. We were on lake trip with a group of other young families. We ski, boat ride, entertained kids, and hung out. Many had compliment me how I got my figure back after having two kids. I told my husband to watch the kids while I went to shower house for a shower. I accidentally went in the men’s shower side. I was showering when one of the hangouts husband got in the shower with me and we both were naked. He was the biggest I ever had. Alcohol and need of stress relief I let him do me standing. With his size the experience was really fulfilling. I had many orgasms and he finally finished inside me. Again I was relieved when I got my period 4 days later.
The third time we had had a third child and I had my tubes tied. I was in my mid thirties at this time. My husband and I had left the 3 kids with grandparents. I went on an equipment training week my husband had to attend. I would lay around in the motel room during the day and we hung out whenever training sessions ended that day. My husband and I would hang out with his fellow attendees some. I got to meet many new men while hanging with my husband. Again a good looking tall well built guy caught my eye. He visited with my husband and I a lot for two nights. I left the room to eat dinner the next day and he noticed me eating alone. He had skipped training that day. He told me he had something in his room to give my husband. I really knew better than to go with him but I did. When we got to his room he gathered a small box of his company items to give my husband. He then went and shut the door. He then came to me and we started sex. I didn’t stop him. My husband had used me on this trip but not like me and this man did. We had sex for most of two hours. We would play until we needed rest then go at it again. I had many orgasms and he had three himself. I didn’t have pregnancy concerns this time. I even had sex with my husband that night even though I was sore. I stayed in my room the following day to avoid an encounter and we returned home the next day.
I have made a promise to myself after this trip. I will never let my guard down and only have sex with my husband in the future. I’m not a cheating wife but did have 3 weak moments for 3 flings. I haven’t had much guilt because no emotions were involved. My husband has always been good in bed so I haven’t needed to cheat. Being a cheater is not worth what I would lose in life.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2023 at 5:42 AM

Justify it however you want to yourself, but are definitely a cheater and your husband deserves better. You should confess to him and hope he forgives you or freed him up to find someone truly worthy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2023 at 6:28 AM

To the person above, are you god, are you a moral judge, do you know that prrson. Have you been a perfect person with no mistakes.
If you are married, do you tell your partner that you read this site with sexual contents??!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2023 at 6:57 AM

Whatever you might say to yourself, you're a cheater and you will definitely cheat again.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2023 at 7:42 PM

I haven’t cheated on my husband . I understand how to lose control for an appealing guy. I work hard to keep my mind where I belong. You are at an age that control gets easier.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 12, 2023 at 11:28 AM

I understand you. I’ve slept with other people but don’t feel like a cheater either. Hot confession.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 12, 2023 at 7:55 PM

I've cheated but I don't count the first few times. I had a boyfriend when I met my husband. My husband was my side guy, but he didn't know it. When we got serious, I staged a fight to break up with my boyfriend. It didn't work. I also had to back off old FWB's I had. we didn't want to end our FWB situation without farewell bangs. As my wedding date approached, I got pretty busy. I think out of guilt, I found myself hoping my husband was getting laid a lot too.

My first real cheat, after we were married, was with an ex, that didn't know I had gotten married. I didn't tell him until after.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 15, 2023 at 6:47 AM

I’m a stay at home mom. I keep this house moving kids and husband are taken care of. Husband never complains about sex. Pretty much get it when he wants it which now a days is not often. My neighbor next door is a retired military guy who one day made a pass at me and since then has been using me as a human fuck doll. I do my things around the house then text my husband that I’m going for a run. I wear running shorts or what ever he wants me to wear and fills every one of my holes. He taught me to like anal and how to squirt. I wear some slutty clothes and he takes pictures of me and shares the body shots with his friends. He has asked about another gang bang but I don’t want to do that again. It was rough and I was really sore and could hardly move. I’m a good looking wife at night and a sex doll during the day. Love my life

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