he doesn't know that i saw him but last night i found a pile of photos of me under his bed on top of some porographic magazines . should i confront him about it or ignore it ?
How old is your step son? I would definately confront him and your husband! Then I would pack his shit and ship him back to his mother or if she is not around somewhere else!!! This kid is obviously disturbed and has no respect or self control. Most of the idiots on here will give you some stupid reply like, "Why don't you sleep with him, you know you want to!?" So this isn't a great place to ask a serious question like that! When confronting him, I am sure everyone will be embarrassed however, what he has done is illegal and called voyerism (spelling) and many people have had their trust broken with this behavior. I would also suggest therepy because he sounds like he needs it!
Boys will be boys....it probably just a phase.
the person who replied before me saying confront him & pack his bags, is obviously a complete dick.
dont take it too seriously...he is a boy, and thats what most boys do. you probably dont have to put him into therapy or any drastic measures like that. if i was you, i would take back the pictures of me without him knowing, and make sure my door is closed and locked when i am changing. i think he will realize you knew and it will never happen again.
Forget about it. He was enjoying himself. No harm done.
The real question is how do you feel about it?
Why don't you sleep with him, you know you want to!?
just give him a handjob every once in a while and he wont have to sneak about it