Before you go to just any club and make yourself bait,
go to an open dance night at a local swinger club.
Most swinger clubs do not allow single unattached males.
But all welcome single un-attached females.
You'll be respected because no means no.
Go, ask some questions, see what's out there.
get answers from people who have experience with various types of kinks.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but baiting and safety are mutually exclusive. If you want the authentic experience, there are no safe words or stops [as one oft seen porno caption says, "Tears are not a safe word."] and if you draw a violent one, you might get to go home or to the hospital - or you might not.
I suspect that what you really want is consensual nonconsensual [CNC] sex. A scenario where your 'attacker' is known to you and some ground rules are established [including safe words] to keep you out of the ER or morgue.
Good luck finding a good CNC partner. It can be incredibly hard to find the sweet spot where his hard dominance fantasies and your submission fantasies mesh.
before you are mindless at any clubs, get the nail polish that changes color when your drink has a roofie mix in it--and lean to stir it with your finger.
as for r**e #2 is right, you want CNC unless you have a death wish!
i was mindless in college, i did the single at a bar wearing almost nothing and drinking way too much. to say i was easily picked-up was way an understatement. it finally happened. i got what i was looking for, but way more. he got too rough, i said to cool it, but that made him go at me with rage instead or anger. i was beaten, i was sexually abused, and dumped in a park unconscious. i woke in the hospital with broken ribs and jaw, but i did wake. my jaw was wired shut and i drank my meals though a straw for almost 2 months!!! i did some counseling, but any way i look at it, it was me asking for what i got. my anger issues are directed at myself. my therapist has helped a lot, and the meds are kind of rough at time, but they help.
so don't be me, r**e is a no stopping and no limits ride though hell, that i am sure you do not have any clue about!
Might be a good idea to get your name and social tattooed in the back of your neck, making identifying your body much easier.
