I Finally Changed Her

My wife got married due to pregnancy. We are sure we conceived on prom night. Just as irresponsible we had a second daughter 18 months later. Family helped during this time until we got established. My wife became a teacher. I am a hardware store manager. Our married and family life had a up and down atmosphere, mostly down. My wife didn’t adjust to family responsibilities well. When my youngest daughter was 13 I started staying away from the drama of bickering more. I learned that because I pay our cell bills I could obtain phone history and texts. My daughters texts were normal for teens but would still make me furious when I snooped. My wife on the same note would text and call time the principal up to two hours a day. Most was school gossip but obviously they were emotionally attached. I finally discussed this with my wife. She didn’t know how I knew what I knew and she went ballistic. She screamed at me and even threw things at me. My daughters came and stopped my wife while beating me with a shoe. I left the house and stayed away for a week. I still tended to my daughters who asked me to come home to help them live with their ballistic mom. Upon my return I finally told her I would fight back from that point on. She made sure to make my life miserable. I told the girls it looks like I would divorce and they cried and begged me not to divorce. I finally could discuss with my wife her behavior and she stands firm that the girls and I was the problem. After several weeks I finally told her I would stay with her until our youngest was 18 years old. She told me great and she would be counting the days. I built on a man room so I wouldn’t be on the couch or recliner for years. I protected the girls from her during those years. I started
side construction and was rat holding money which was getting beyond my expectation's. Again I started snooping my wife’s phone record and she shared with the principal how I had become unmanageable. She text many times how I thought they were having sex. He suggested that because I thought it that they should start having sex. She always replied she would never cheat on me. She believed in one and only no matter how hard it is. My wife and I was just roommates up until the 18th birthday. No sex and very little talking with me doing practically all of daughters responsibility. I told my daughters that I would be divorcing and had the paperwork made up. We had my daughters 18th birthday celebration at my in~laws. When we got home my wife went into her rage again. She said the girls had tried to get her to get help and quit being so hateful. She said divorcing me would be my mistake. I left the papers with her and left. She finally signed and we after time were divorced. I gave her the house which was given by her family and all I wanted was my personal items. I used my hidden money and remodeled an old house. A friend asked for me to rent a room to a single mom with no place to go. It wasn’t planned at the start but we were sexually active. At this time to have a young woman who loves sex was much appreciated. Neither my roommate nor I wanted anyone to know we were sexually active. I even got a vasectomy. Strange as it seems I continued to be paying the cell bill for my now ex wife and daughters. I could keep up with everyone’s life without them knowing. My wife continued her talks with the principal. And many times turned down sex with him. After almost three years my daughters told me their mom had been going through counseling. The results is really helping my ex wife become a much better person. They also said she told them often that she hoped to get me back so no dating others. My house partner finally got in a relationship so we stopped having sex. My oldest daughter was about to get married. On rehearsal night my ex called and asked for a ride because her car broke down. I decided this may be interesting so I agreed. My ex seemed to be entirely a different person. When we returned home we had a long discussion. She assured me she never physically cheated but knows how she was wrong making the principal her best friend during marriage. She said she would only have one man in her life. She definitely has shown a big change. Wedding went well. My ex and I where side by side through it all. I started taking her out on dates again. On the sixth date my full testes failed me. We had sex before we went to eat and all night after we dining out. Without asking she told me she has been having only sex with her many sex toys. She never asked me about if I had any relationships while separated. We really opened the door to sneaky sex. We had sex in the city park her holding on to a bench. A policeman came and told us to get a room because we were turned in. We are living together now. I’m renting my other place to my former lover. We will see where this goes now.