My Dilemma...ever Again?

I'm a 55 year old MWM. I have some bi-sexual tendencies.

About ten years ago my wife developed a severe case of sciatica and, according to her Doctor, one of the worst cases of fibromyalgia he'd ever seen. In fact, it's so bad, I have to "air hug' my wife as just touching her is very painful. Needless to say, sex has been out of the question since. About five years ago, they discovered a couple of blockages in my arteries and I had open heart sugary. It was successful, and I live a fairly normal life. I work out 6 days a week and I'm HWP and run almost every day.

The remaining issue from that is what caused me to have blocked arteries, also blocked most of the blood vessels in my penis so I now have ED. Insurance won't cover any treatments for it, and because of my wife's medical condition she can't work. I'm the only bread winner in our house so money is tight as well.

I still have a strong libido, and I've tried multiple websites to find a partner as I still love to perform oral sex for women. Unlike a lot of men, I'm honest in my posting and admit my situation. I might of gotten two responses in the last 4 years, and those didn't work out because they decided at the last minute that my situation was tenable for them. I don't trust, nor can I afford an escort or lady of the night and they aren't into allowing you to perform oral sex on them.

This situation has left me depressed and feeling like there is no sexual future for me. I just feel like I'm out of options.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 23, 2023 at 6:55 AM

We have a similar , yet different problem. I now have a 15 and a 17 year old granddaughter living with wifey and I. They bounce around the house in skimpy little outfits with their perky young titties every morning and night. My cock is always hard and I'm wearing Momma out. She keeps asking me if I'm taking some kind of new vitamins or something..

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 23, 2023 at 7:15 AM

OP, I'm curious. I imagine you've tried ED meds but if you have artery damage or blockages in your penis, yeah, that sucks big time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 23, 2023 at 8:42 AM

I feel for you, pretty difficult situation. But, and just as a suggestion, besides your cock have you tried stimulating any other parts of your body? I know some guys, not me, get turned on by nipple play, and other guys, definitely me, get turned on by anal play. I’m 58 and only discovered the joy of prostrate play about 5 years ago.
In fact, by practicing, keeping an open mind, and just enjoying it, I have been able to have incredibly intense hands free prostrate orgasms. The crazy thing is, your cock does not need to be hard to orgasm this way. But damn, does it feel good.
For the record, and not that it matters, I’m straight and happily married, but also in a situation where sex with my wife is no longer really an option.
Either way, good luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 23, 2023 at 9:06 AM

Have you tried sucking cocks?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 24, 2023 at 7:21 AM

I've actually sucked cock twice. I just didn't find it as exciting or fulfilling as I thought it would. For me, to be really exciting there would have to be a woman who actually enjoyed or got excited by, it present. I've also set up ads for that and never gotten a response.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 24, 2023 at 4:53 PM

I’ve enjoyed prostate play for years, and have recently gotten into nipple play as well. I can very nearly orgasm from either one, and it doesn’t take much penile stimulation (or an erection) to bring me the rest of the way to a satisfying ejaculation all over my chest.
If it’s just having erections that you’re after, I found a very high quality penis pump on Amazon for less tha $30 that automatically sucks and releases my cock, very similar to a bj, and it makes me hard as a rock, even with my ed.
Good luck, we’re pulling for you!

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