Our Awakening

When Lisa I met and dated, we were both struggling financially. Our relationship advanced quickly, too quickly , and we got a studio apartment together because we were both on the brink of homelessness. I sold my car to get the security deposit and we became codependent on each other. Things were tough, our sex life was almost nonexistent but we kept fighting. Eventually, I ended up fast tracking at my job and life got better. We got a larger apartment but continued to sleep together out of habit. Sex picked up slowly and 2 years into our relationship, we were still learning each other. Lisa went through some medical issues, so we rushed a wedding to get her on my medical benefits. We then learned she would never conceive.
Our marriage was better than dating and we soon had a more passionate love life. Communication improved and our lovemaking did too. One night, after a few too many glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. It was the first time she asked me to tie her wrists to the bedposts. I took 2 bathrobe belts, tied her down and tried my hand at being dominant. Nipple pinching, forced oral as I fingered her and she was vocal and very receptive. I went down on her, and eventually she was begging me to put it in. Me on top, I started banging away, trying my damdest to get her to cum. She cums a lot from oral and fingering but rarely from penetration. I think she was almost there when I started to lose it. As my head drooped ( a telltale sign ) she started whispering in my ear " Do it, fill me up, cum now, do it" and I did.
Thats when it happened, She couldn't stop me, so I slid down and started licking her again, 2 fingers going to town on her messy snatch. I dont know if it was the shock of me eating her after cumming, or just her needs, but Lisa was thrashing and moaning as she came. She begged me to stop and I moved back up and we kissed. it was a mixture of both our orgasms as I untied her. As we pillow talked, she told me that was the hottest thing she had ever experienced, was thanking me and asked why I was willing to do that. I explained her satisfaction was all that was on my mind.
Since then, everything changed. Not only did she explain her desires to be submissive in bed, but she learned she is a switch. She began experimenting with BDSM on me, so I could improve my game. We invested in a house recently and set up one room as our playroom, loaded with toys and a huge bed. She's become receptive to roleplay , anal and pain including piercings. I have also learned to accept her fantasies, including pegging, edging and cumplay.
Now, after 5 years together, our misfortune and tough beginnings have evolved into a strong, loving marriage and a fantastic sex life . Peace!