Any Other Ladies Wonder?

From personal experience, stories here and from friends, and watching amateur videos I've always found it interesting that we women can get kinky with total strangers but feel like we have to be vanilla with our husbands.

My friends tell me stories about their cheating and all the crazy things they do and how satisfying it is and telling me I need to do it. "Hook up with some hot built guy from the gym X will never know". I ask them have they ever done those things with their spouses and they never have a good answer.

A few say their spouses are boring and close minded and would never do it. Some say they don't want their husbands to think badly of them, like they are whores or something.

I tell them if you did that with your husband he might enjoy it and your sex life would be fulfilling enough that you wouldn't want to cheat. Maybe it's just the thrill of the chase to hook up with some other guy, I don't know.

Ladies do you find yourself doing things with other men that you would never do with your husbands? Have you ever tried those things with your husbands? What was the result?