Pregnancy Avoided During My Teen Years And College

In my house when I turned fourteen an argument started about loosing my virginity. My mother shouted never, my grandmother said I was old enough. That night my grandmother came to my room with a condom, and a spermicide. Just be careful but enjoy your body,

My mother was against dating before I was a senior, and then only under controlled conditions. My grandmother let me know my mother had lost her virginity in the eighth grade to an older boy, and he had no further interest in her. So, sex was good for you, have sex for my enjoyment, don't get hung up on the boy.

Of course my mother was in control. My grandmother suggested that I talk a girlfriend into trying sex, no way of getting pregnant, so no need for condoms or spermicides. The girl was my next door neighbor. It was eye opening, and very delicious. Who knew pussy and tits were so good. We both loved it, and nothing was going to stop us.

My mother was not aware of it.

Once we were seniors and we went to Senior Prom, we lost our underwear and our virginities. I had my condom and spermicide, my friend had neither. The results were as expected, the boy who had my virginity told me to never again ask him to use a condom. My friend got pregnant.

My mother was visibly upset, although she was relieved I had the condom. My friend faced getting married, the only course of action open for her. I went on to college, armed with condoms, spermicide and a love of girls. I avoided pregnancy, until I got married and delivered myself to be impregnated.