Husband Just Told Me He Is Bi

I never suspected, well maybe a little. He was always a bit "affected" in his speech and mannerisms. But he was a tiger in bed, such that I never thought he'd have any interest in homosexual relations with another guy. He is 28 to my 32. We dated for a year and have been married for 3 years. Basically he felt he had to tell me. There is no love, no other woman, but he misses having sex with a man. He loves our sex, but it isn't enough for him. I asked what he meant, after all I have a butt too if he wants anal sex. I can and do blow him often, I swallow, take it on my face, my boobs, my pussy anywhere he wants.

Turns out, what he misses is what i can never give him. I didn't realize that he was the bottom in his male to male sex. He is the one sucking and the one laying down and spreading to get fucked. He misses that aspect of sex and it's one i can't give him. I mentioned dildos, buttplugs and even strapons but he says when he was single he used those and they aren't the same. He gave me all the details I wanted, and the only concerns I had were:
1, if he gets what he wants it's letting men cum in his mouth and in his butt, and that can be unsafe.
2, How will it affect his wanting sex with me. I still need and want his cock also.
3. If he does a lot of guys then quite frankly he's a slut, if only one guy often then would he fall in love with that guy from giving him the pleasure he craves.
4, I am unsure if I want him to do it in our home or off somewhere, and not sure if I want to know when he's doing it or not, as well as the curiosity of possibly watching him?

To answer, he said he'd only go with tested guys and make sure of it, but I was correct in that he wants the men to shoot their sperm in him.

He is the bottom, he gets an internal type of cramping like orgasm but ejaculates very very rarely so there would be plenty left for me. he loves me and loves my body and wants my body and he would always make it with me.

He is not attracted to men physically, only wants their cock for sex. So one guy or a few he isn't really wanting that, only sex.

He is willing to do it in front of me if I want, he will do it in our home and I said only in the guest bedroom, not ours. If it's not in our place, then he will let me know or not as I wish it.

My husband likes getting fucked and sucking cocks. At least he was honest about it and talked to me first rather than sneak around leading a secret gay life. I do actually respect that he would do that, and be honest. It must have taken a lot of courage. I just don't know how I want it to happen yet. But it will happen. I want him happy, and want to make him happy.