I Want An Open Marriage

My husband and I have been married for 10.5 years, been together for 12. We have been loyal and faithful to each other this whole time. Lately, however, I’ve really been fantasizing about inviting other people into our bedroom. I love watching porn with my husband while we have sex, because watching him get off to other people fucking really turns me on. I’d love to watch him fuck or get sucked off by another woman and I so badly want him to share me with other people. My dream is to have him watch and jerk off as his friends take turns fucking and emptying their balls into my ass and pussy.

I was wondering how to warm him up to this idea without him thinking I just want an excuse to cheat on him, which isn’t the case. I want him involved. Can anybody offer me advice on how to proceed? Maybe start by watching gangbang or group sex vids while we fuck and see if he’s really into it?

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Another_55er

by Another_55er on Jun 26, 2024 at 9:44 AM

Since you and hubby already watch some adult videos together use that as a foundation to discuss alternative lifestyles. Find out more about his likes and interests. Go slow. Keep talking and communication open.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 26, 2024 at 3:44 PM

if he likes to watch the things you wish to do, suggest more of those videos. do you pillow talk during sex, good sexual fantasy often starts are a bit of pillow talk.

once you are watching the videos, and especially if your pillow talk starts to include fantasies about what you want to do, then do a little test when you're watching it or talking about it--say: "wouldn't that be crazy to try?' or "wow, i'd love to see you getting blown by .... " and if he goes for that maybe add in a "wouldn't you think it kinky to see me getting it from another... "

above all else just be playful in your pillow talk and see what interests him--if anything more than he's doing now. communication is the secret to not only a successful marriage, but also successful extramarital play.

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Jun 27, 2024 at 8:18 AM

I agree with Another_55er. Communication is key. However, I'd shy away from gangbang porn. That may give him the wrong idea. Start with wife swapping or swingers porn. I find the amateur stuff just as arousing as the porn star versions. Less perfect bodies, more real passion. While you're fucking ask if it's something he'd consider. Initially, I'd keep his friends out of the conversation. Lest he think that you want to fuck one of his buddies. If he is interested, find an out of town swingers club to try. Keep things open and light. But, keep the conversation and dirty talk active. You want him to know this is something that really turns you on and would like to try, with him! Good luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2024 at 8:45 AM

My ex wife and I years ago watched a lot of porn and we had a box full of sex toys. We even went so far as to try strap on sex where she enjoyed fucking my ass.
It would be safe to say that we were open with each other about sex so I started talking to her about watching her fuck other men and how I would line to watch her with other women.
We watched that type of porn and I got her into gang bang porn. I loved watching a woman take several men at a time and watching a woman get fucked up the ass and pussy while sucking on a big dick was the ultimate thrill for me.
She liked anal sex and she used sex toys when I was out of town and let me listen over the phone when she was fucking her self. We bought several black cocks from regular size to pretty damn big.
After awhile she told me we could try it with other people. We set up an account on adult friend finder and in no time we had quite a few men wanting to fuck my wife. We had our first meeting with this hung guy that lived about 50 miles away. We went to his house and I watched him fuck my wife for hours and cum in all of here holes. All 3 of us were naked all weekend and while my wife was sound asleep he and I were drinking beer in the kitchen and he caught me checking out his huge cock a few times then he asked me if I wanted to touch it.
I told him I never had sex with an adult male but did with boys growing up. After we talked a few minutes I was on my knees in the floor between his legs sucking on his huge dick. I played with his big nuts stroked his long fat dick then got him off in my mouth. My wife was still asleep and I told him how I used to let boys fuck me when I was in school. He said he didn’t mind at all if I wanted him to fuck me. I told him I didn’t want my wife to catch us.
We went and looked in on her and she was knocked out so I told him let’s do it. He got the lube and we went to a back bedroom licked the door and he fucked me dog style and shot his cum up my ass. He told me while he was fucking me how he really wanted to do this in front of a woman.
With his dick still balls deep in my ass I told him I think my wife would be OK watching him fuck me. Well we found out when she and I were in a 69 with me on bottom and he took his dick out of my wife’s pussy a few times to put it in my mouth. Once my wife figured out what he was doing she asked me if I was sucking his dick. I told her I was and she got excited. Right away she asked to watch so I let her watch me suck on his dick. While I was doing that she started to finger my asshole and discovered that there was some lube and a little cum in my ass.
She had three fingers deep in my ass and asked me if I let him fuck me. Once I said yes he fucked me she stopped us and told us she wanted to watch me take his big dick so she and I got in a 69 and he fucked my ass while she licked his dick and sucked on his nuts until he came in my ass.
After that the weekend got damn good a lot of wild kinky sex both straight and bisexual. She and I went to his house a few times then we had others we met with and my wife got gang fucked by 8 men at a swingers party on From that we tried bi females then black men then more gang bangs and groups of black men.
She liked watching me suck on a big dick and she really got off watching me take a big dick in the ass. We got very drunk one Saturday night at the house of one of the black men. His friends were there and they had been fucking my wife for hours then she talked me in to letting two of the black men fuck me. She picked out the two with the biggest dicks.
That how we got started having sex with others. It will work for you too if you want it too. Good luck with getting extra sec and I hope your husband will enjoy it too

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